People who have been in happy relationships for a long time know how much effort it takes to make them happy. It is important to understand that not everyone in life develops as we would like. Any achievement takes time and a lot of work. And relationships in this case are no exception. Existing side by side with a loved one, we learn new things and get to know both ourselves and our partner. What do you need to learn in a relationship to make it truly happy? 

1. Misunderstandings cannot be avoided 

No matter how kindred spirits you are, no matter how much you love a person, it is simply impossible to avoid misunderstanding. In this case, it is necessary to be able not to dwell on such trifles as a misinterpreted word, look or hint. Do not let a misunderstanding turn into a problem due to excessive meticulousness and a tendency to break down any such minor incident to the smallest detail. 

2. Trust – the foundation of a happy relationship 

If you do not trust the person with whom you have decided to go through life, how do you imagine this life? Constant checks, suspicions and accusations are unacceptable for a relationship. If your beloved (beloved) is cheating on you and demonstrates his unreliability by other actions, it is better to think about why you need such a relationship. Otherwise – learn to trust. 

3. Rest from each other is also necessary 

Spend time together – OK. Spending all the time together – impossible. To miss each other, find topics for conversation and just collect your thoughts, you need to spend some time apart. Among other things, this will help you understand how much you value your soulmate. 

4. Personal development needs to be encouraged and supported 

"Healthy" relationships mean that partners do not hinder or limit each other's spiritual/financial/personal development, but encourage and support it. First of all, we expect understanding and support from the most beloved and close person, the opinion of others is secondary to us. Keep this in mind when your partner decides to learn a new skill or gets interested in a hobby. Remember that a person who does not develop and does not change in any way will soon get bored with you. 

5. Compromise – it's good 

Compromise – does not mean showing weakness. Only strong people are able to cope with the difficulties that must be overcome on the way to a compromise. Recognize the correctness of your partner – means to show how much you value your relationship.  

6. Recognize shortcomings 

Every person has their own shortcomings. And the longer you hide them, the more unpleasant surprise they will be for your chosen one in the future. The sooner the partner learns about your shortcomings, the sooner he will have more time to realize and accept them. 

7. It is important to accept certain things 

Why dwell on what has already happened? Unfortunately, the past cannot be changed. If your half in the biography has lines that you would like to erase, put up with them. Better focus on the future, the past – not your goal. 

8. The ability to forgive – one of the most important in a relationship 

A person who harbors anger runs the risk of suffering from such unpleasant baggage one day. Learn to forgive your loved one, learn from mistakes (both yours and your partner's) and use the accumulated knowledge and experience to prevent problems in the future. 

9. Keep your expectations high 

Don't count on your significant other to somehow master the skill of reading minds or anticipating desires. Of course, over time, the partner will learn you better and will know what you like, what you don’t like, what brings pleasure, surprises, revolts, etc. However, for this it is simply necessary to tell him about it instead of being disappointed due to the failure of your desires and inconsistency with the expectations that you yourself came up with and did not voice to anyone. 

10. Openly show your feelings  

This is not about kissing in the subway and other public places, but about the fact that your soul mate should feel loved. You can be angry at a person, but at the same time do not stop loving him – this is how your partner should feel.  Do not forget that problems, quarrels, conflicts and misunderstandings arise in any relationship.

Estet-portal emphasizes that happy relationships are characterized not by the complete absence of any problems, but by the ability to solve them, gaining the necessary knowledge and skills that can be applied in the future to develop and strengthen relationships.  

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