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The common phrase about women and men from different planets is not so far from the true. At least when it comes to relationship to familiar things. A woman sees a red car and thinks how nice it would be to have one just like it. And a man, when looking at the same car, notices the low landing of the body and guesses: often does the car "cling" bottom of the road, driving over potholes.

Yes, we sometimes really don understand each other. But some facts about men that surprise or even outrage women can be explained quite easily. And this will reduce the "chasm" between representatives of different planets.

Facts about men: how to understand the incomprehensible

Actually, the difference between men and women isn not that great. But some facts really make us believe that men and women — representatives of different worlds. To understand your man and get to know him better, try to look at this world and the things that happen in it through his eyes. We will talk about a few facts that most often distinguish the perception of women and men. Of course, these are not universal rules, and all people are unique and inimitable. However, there are always patterns. So, 5 facts about men that often remain misunderstood by their soul mates.

Fact # 1: They don foresee personal problems

It's strange to see a successful businessman who runs an entire company unable to notice his wife's offended look when a family dinner is once again postponed due to business negotiations.

But that's the way men are: they are excellent analysts when it comes to something material. And whether it is about money, a car, or sport — — it is important that the analyzed object can be counted, knocked on the wheel or unscrewed with a screwdriver. And everything that goes beyond the material — exists in another reality.

Even for food, a man will go when there is no other way out. Because hunger — it's in the  feeling category. And a man will pay attention to an empty fridge only when he gets hungry. Just as he notices his wife's displeasure when it is expressed directly and unambiguously: by talking in a raised voice, tears, an ultimatum, or, it happens  so — collected things.

Fact # 2: Men don't wait for our calls

A woman in love is able to constantly hold the phone in her hands, waiting for a call or message from her beloved. It hurts even more when the answer to the SMS you sent does not come in the same minute, but an hour later. Or, having answered your call, the man briefly finds out the purpose of the call and instead of continuing the conversation, he says that he will call back later.

And the the head immediately creep treacherous thoughts that «he does need» and "He found another." But it's not so. A man busy with some business can read your message and, seeing that nothing urgent has happened, will postpone the answer to later — when it's free. And the same with calls. And at the same time, it will be terribly surprised if you try to argue his "dislike" to you. He loves you and trust if you needed his help, he pushed everything else into the background.

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Fact # 3: They don understand us

There isn't there woman who hasn not said or thought once: "He can't hear me...." .

With hearing men everything is all right, but here the ways of receiving information through hearing in women and men are different. So, any hints (even the most eloquent ones) can pass by the mind of a man only because he heard neither a call to action nor a direct request. When it comes to relationships, men don't like mysteries. And most often they don not even guess about the existence of these mysteries. And your words that don carry an unambiguous meaning or appeal, a man may really not hear.

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Fact # 4: Men are afraid of relationships

This fact — more like a cliché. It is based on the fact that men are less likely to marry or cohabitate than women. It is all the more surprising to learn that men are no less afraid of loneliness than ours. But about the same they are afraid of losing their personal space. It’s even scary for a man to imagine that he will no longer have calm evenings that he will spend watching TV or playing online games, that from now on he will have to keep an account for every step he takes. But it's worth showing him that you don't encroach on his personal space and with understanding his desire to sometimes spend an evening with friends  nbsp;— even the most hardened bachelor cannot resist. Of course, if this bachelor is in love with you.

Fact # 5: They are afraid of getting old

Old Age — it what even the most courageous representatives of the strong part of humanity think with horror. If for a woman, age-related fears are more often associated with appearance, then for a man, approaching "X age" means he can stop being a man. This concept includes a natural decrease in potency, the inability to do what you love, professional lack of demand and and much more. Therefore, approaching 40 years and summarizing their achievements and losses, men often lose ground under their feet. And it it is the fear of not to have time to do something before 

Here are the facts — funny and not very, and make you think about the fact that they are not so simple, our men. And that they just like need understanding and sincere attention.

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