When preparing to become a mother, every woman probably thinks about what kind of parents she and her husband will be, how life in the family will change, how to properly raise a baby, etc. In general, a fair amount of questions arise for themselves. All this is exciting and very responsible. But in any case, life after the birth of a child is by no means glossy, contrary to the same "life stories"; fashion publications for young mothers. Еstet-portal.com will introduce you to the discoveries that you will make when your baby is born.
Life after the birth of a child: discoveries that make you think
Actually, after giving birth you will have to realize a lot of interesting things, and something, perhaps, will literally turn your world upside down.
Do not forget that many things still do not go according to the plan invented during pregnancy.
So, you will discover what…
Mode of the day – not your topic yet
It was you who previously set the appropriate mode for yourself. Perhaps you belong to the "larks" who prefer to get up at dawn. Or maybe an "owl", awake at night and staying in the realm of Morpheus until dinner. You will have to reset your biorhythms, as your baby will dictate the routine of the day after birth.
Many babies have some kind of sleep problems: sometimes they are capricious and cannot fall asleep at all, sometimes they confuse the time of day, and it happens that on different days they sleep differently. Do not forget that babies are also born already either "larks" or "owls", and this does not mean at all that you were lucky enough to give birth to a little man with a sleep pattern, similar to yours.
Not all parenting aids are the same
Preparing for the birth of a baby, the expectant mother will certainly "storm" countless psychological and pedagogical literature. But such "savvy" does not mean at all that you know everything "from" and "before" and, most importantly – it is clear, how to properly raise your child. After all, a little man will do and behave in such a way that you will only have to wonder: he does not resemble any of the types described in smart books, does not justify anyone's expectations, and any of the pedagogical methods is of little use to him. Therefore, you should not read everything in a row on the educational topics that interest you, select only the most useful, and let such books be your guide.
Children have rather strange taste preferences
The baby may well surprise you with how he will eat. The first discoveries, as a rule, occur during the start of feeding – at about 6 months of age. Further – more. For example, you can devote half a day to preparing a tender chicken soufflé especially for a child, and he will never want to try this dish. But he will gladly eat his father's sandwich with sausage. Or he will spit out appetizing applesauce, but will crush the cauliflower, washing it down with sour fermented baked milk.
A little bit of cunning about a child is allowed
Naturally, you promised yourself that you would always be honest and open with your child, explaining everything, speaking bluntly and forbidding only what is actually impossible or dangerous. All parents who set foot on the educational path went through such promises to themselves. But very soon it turns out that, sometimes, it is easier to distract a child, switch to something useful, intrigue with an interesting game, etc., rather than indulge in lengthy explanations.
In any case, you need to realize that your child will not always do what you say. And no matter how you think that with the right vector of upbringing, a child simply has to be an example of obedience, if this happens at least sometimes, a mini-victory is guaranteed.
Of course, after the birth of a child, you still have so much to discover in him, his behavior, as well as in yourself. Your familiar world will really turn upside down.
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