Relationships always start very romantic – butterflies in the stomach, late-night phone calls, cute messages. However, when the candy-bouquet period ends, the realization comes that a happy relationship – this is real work. Learn how to make your man happy and not destroy the relationship with your behavior.

How to make a man happy: 10 tips for a happy relationship

  1. Support a man in all his endeavors

It is clear that this rule does not apply to passion for slot machines and alcohol. It is about the harmless interests of your loved one. Even if his sudden desire seems absolutely strange – let him try something new. If you do not support your man – someone else will do it.

  1. No scandals and humiliation in public

When the authority of a man begins to be undermined in front of a group of friends, colleagues or just passers-by by his chosen one, it is perceived as a knife in the back. This insult may be forgiven, but it will never be forgotten. Remember, such a scandal will come back to haunt you sooner or later.

  1. Don't forget the main purpose of the relationship

Normal people strive to build relationships based on love and mutual understanding, where both partners give each other pleasant emotions and make each other happy. This is the real purpose of a relationship – remember this when you feel like picking on your lover for not calling on time, for wearing pants you don't like, or for listening to the wrong music.

  1. Praise your man

Stop trying on the roles of a grumpy mother and a capricious daughter – that way you can't make a man happy. It is enough to show constant, but unobtrusive care, interest in its growth, and, of course, admiration for its steepness. Everyone loves praise, and if you don’t say nice words to your man, he may doubt the sincerity of your feelings.

  1. Stop hinting – speak directly

Of course, men are able to understand hints, but only hints from other men, or hints that are beneficial for them to understand. Men do not like it when a woman tries to state the essence of the matter in Aesopian language.

To build a happy relationship, talk directly about what is bothering you. For example, not “I think you stopped loving me”, but “find another place to park your bike, I no longer have the strength to clean the sand all over the apartment.”

  1. Don't put him at the center of his universe and demand that he put you at the center of his

It's not about the depth of love and sincere concern for each other's needs, but about demanding attention to detail. To make a man happy, you do not need to reproach him for not liking to chat with you on VKontakte for 30 minutes, or talk on the phone 3 times a day.

You don't have to officially dedicate your life to him – it scares the men. If you add to this constant reproaches about how inattentive and meaningless emotional manifestations he is, you will not maintain a strong, happy relationship, but only tire your loved one. To make a man happy, stop your tantrums, otherwise you can become a lonely crying woman exclaiming: “Ungrateful, I gave him all of me.”

  1. The man is always in charge

To make a man happy, let him be strong, he must feel that everything depends on his decision. Even if he is not particularly right, over time, you can quietly correct the situation.

  1. The stunning look – for the beloved man

Despite the fact that the Winning Hunter Syndrome is usually considered a male prerogative, women are just as prone to this behavior. The longer the relationship, the less a woman takes care of herself – this is one of the main male complaints. What makes a man happy is the fact that he married a mischievous sweet girl who was at the wedding with curls and flowers in her hair, and now cut her locks and constantly wears stretched overalls?

At the same time, an untidy appearance immediately transforms into a seductive and elegant one, as soon as a meeting of classmates or a corporate party at work is approaching. To maintain a happy relationship, don't rely on being loved for who you are. Please your chosen one with your beauty.

  1. Avoid using diminutives in his direction

Pupsik, cat, zaya, masik – Do you really think that a man can appreciate such treatment? Stop using such words, men do not like this, because it does not emphasize their masculinity at all.

  1. Give your man a “holiday”

All men love delicious food, and when they cook wonderful dishes for them, their love – it's doubly nice.

Happy relationships are impossible without mutual support and understanding. Everything is in your hands – You can either be wiser and keep the relationship, or destroy it because of your own behavior.

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