The transitional age in girls sometimes becomes a real test for parents. From a little girl there is a transformation into a girl who has completely different interests. Many parents are frightened by the very fact of such changes, because they are used to thinking of their daughter as a small child. And, meanwhile, she is already trying to make up and shows interest in boys, listening to "incomprehensible" music. How easily the teenage crisis will pass depends on the characteristics of family relations at this stage. If all is well, then any crisis – it's the start of something new. But if the parents do not pay due attention to the teenager, they refuse to support him, they are too strict – that is, the risk of various problems. How to avoid it?
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The transitional age for girls
begins at 12 years old – and lasts up to 16. And if you do not focus on physiological changes in the body, then the main feature of this period – the girl's desire to be liked by the boys. She begins to pay more attention to her appearance – takes care of herself, experiments with clothes and style, wants to be fashionable and stylish. In an effort to be the most beautiful and perfect, many girls go to extremes – sit on strict diets, considering themselves fat, or do not eat anything at all. It is adolescence that "contributes" to the appearance of complexes. During this period, the support of the mother is very important, which for the girl is an unconscious standard of femininity. But there is a situation when a girl strives in no case to be like her mother. In adolescence, "revealed" all conflicts between family members that were not explicit before. And if the mother is too authoritarian towards her daughter or vice versa – does not pay due attention – then it will manifest itself in teenage riots. And "rebel" teenagers can do it in different ways, but it will not always be a harmless short haircut or provocative clothes. 
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1. Changes are taking place in the girl's body, which she may not fully understand. Of course, in the age of the Internet, she could already find out about everything herself. But it's better to talk to your daughter about everything in advance or purchase special literature if you feel uncomfortable with such conversations.
2. The girl shows an increased interest in her appearance, painfully reacts to criticism. Therefore, even as a joke, do not think of her shortcomings. It is better to help your daughter find her style – go to a good hairdresser, choose the right clothes and high-quality cosmetics. But do not dictate to the girl what to wear. Let her make her own choice. 3. The sooner you explain to your daughter that you do not need to focus on glossy beauty standards – all the better. Tell us how a fashionable picture is made in a magazine, or better – find themed videos. It is important that the girl accepts her body and does not torture herself with diets, does not get angry with herself because of the "imperfect" complexion.
4. If a girl has complexes because of something, help to overcome complexes. If there is a clear excess weight – go to a nutritionist, go in for sports together. Problem skin – reason to visit a dermatologist.
5. In adolescence, many girls begin to keep a personal diary. And even with a trusting relationship with her parents, she will hide him from them. Don't read it, even if you really want to.
And most importantly – support your daughter, help to understand even the most trifling (in your opinion) problems. Judge only the actions of the child, and do not get personal. We all made mistakes, so a deuce at school or a dress burnt by an iron – not a reason for humiliation and insults.
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Girls' transitional age – a natural period when growing up and turning into an adult girl begins. She learns to be independent, to make choices, she is faced with her first love. It is important to support your daughter, to be able to listen to her and give advice when necessary. Main – trust in the family when a teenager knows that he is loved, no matter what. Read also:
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