8 important rules of modern etiquette that are ashamed not to know

In today's world, not knowing the rules of etiquette means putting yourself in an uncomfortable light. Although the main rules of good manners are quite simple, and some of them are not much different from those that were adopted more than a century ago. Knowing and skillfully using the rules of courtesy, you can always make a good impression on others. This knowledge will help you effectively build communication. In addition, you can also expect to be treated like – correct and polite – way. Generally speaking, modern etiquette implies neatness, the ability to keep one's emotions under control, possession of a culture of speech, elementary decency. All this, of course, applies to representatives of both sexes.

Rules of conduct in society that everyone should know

Each of us can fill the gap in important knowledge about how to properly behave in public. This knowledge, as well as any other useful knowledge, enriches us, makes us better and spiritually richer, and adds self-respect.  So…

1. Forbidden topics in secular communication: finance, religion, well-being, politics.

It is absolutely inappropriate to ask (even if a question follows a compliment) the cost of an outfit or personal item.

To an exclamation like: “Great costume! How much does such beauty cost? – You will have to react. With a friendly smile, you can answer that this is a present and, under a convenient pretext, transfer the topic to a different plane. If your counterpart insists on a more specific answer, say gently that you would not like to discuss it.

2. It is not acceptable to discuss those who are currently absent.

It is not permissible to speak badly about loved ones, for example, as it usually happens: wives (husbands) are discussed. But if the spouse is so bad, you should probably get a divorce. About the country in which they live, people also often respond disrespectfully. And here it’s worth considering, because they are also part of it, and if “they are alone (substitute the necessary)”, then such persons themselves belong to such a personal category.

3. Under no circumstances should you reveal a secret: prayers, love relationships, wealth, gifts, age, the composition of your medicine.
4. It's a complete bad manners to declare so that everyone can hear that at this period of your life you are on a diet.

You can not refuse to try the treat of a hospitable hostess, referring to the diet. It is imperative to praise the dishes prepared by her, while eating is not at all necessary. According to the same "scenario" also apply to alcoholic beverages. It is not necessary to notify everyone about the reasons for which you cannot drink. In your situation, the right solution would be to sip a little dry white wine.

5. The man always enters the elevator first, and the one closest to the door should exit first.
6. International Protocol provides a common standard for the number of pieces of jewelery worn at any one time. It can be 13 items (they also include jewelry buttons).

It is not allowed to wear rings over gloves, but a bracelet is allowed. Not so long ago, decorating yourself with diamonds was considered the privilege of married ladies, and was appropriate for the evening. But today it is allowed to wear such jewelry during the day. 

7. A man never carries a handbag. And he takes a coat from a woman only to take it to the wardrobe.
8. Refer to "You" follows any person who has reached the age of 12. It's terrible to hear when, for example, "poking" service personnel: drivers, cleaners, waiters, etc.

We must respect those who are lower than us on the social ladder, because, first of all, we are all people.

Try to carefully monitor your own manners: it does not require much effort, but the benefits are enormous. By adhering to all understandable and accessible rules of mutual respect, you can avoid many conflicts, various awkwardness, as well as spoiled mood for yourself and others.