Often having lived together for many years, the spouses cease to be interested in each other sexually, as each of them is fully satisfied with his soul mate during this time, which makes some unfaithful husbands and wives seek solace on the side. But after all, once upon a time passion burned between the partners and every day they fell asleep and woke up in each other's arms, never getting tired of giving tenderness and affection to their dear and beloved person. Estet-portal has selected 5 arguments in favor of marital sex that can change your idea of life in marriage.
A 16-year-old girl sees her future in rosy tones. Meeting, flowers, wedding, children, gentle hugs, kisses and the magic of love every night ... Adored husband, beloved children - a solid, unclouded happiness. It really starts like this. But then the baby is born. And you feel so tired that your bones ache. And become fat and unattractive for a while.
Even after the weight returns to normal, it seems that you look different. Like a cut flower left in the sun: it is still beautiful, but withered a little ... And you and your husband are moving away from each other. And you already fall asleep without discussing the past day and don’t even kiss ... And then one day, while washing dishes, you realize that you haven’t touched each other for a couple of weeks and didn’t even remember sex. It seems that at the age of 16 you thought about sex and about relationships with a man in a different way. As if they knew something that is now forgotten. Or maybe it's worth remembering...
Without further ado, here are five reasons why you should make love to your husband every night:
1. Marriage sex allows you to feel yourself. Motherhood is the highest expression of being a woman. Paradoxically, feeling like a mother deprives us of femininity. The self-giving that is present in it makes us completely surrender to the satisfaction of all the needs of another human being and feel distinctly gender neutral. After all, we spend most of the day playing with dolls, washing off baby food, snot and God knows what else from our clothes, changing diapers and washing diapers, running after the baby through the park, bending over in three deaths.
There is something tonic in kissing the man you love. Being in the arms of a loved one, you remember who you really are, even before you realize that you have forgotten it. Yes, you are a cook, a cleaner, a teacher, a windshield wiper, a nanny, and perhaps also a dairy producer. But among your roles there is something more and much more delightful. You are a woman! This reveals your potential and special depth. And you are an amazing kisser! It's so beautiful to find yourself through the touch of another.
2. This is the best way to make your husband feel loved. If you want your husband to behave like a human, treat him like a person. Let's look at what that means. Women have a million criteria by which they can feel loved. Men are much easier. They must be fed, they must be appreciated and they must have sex. That's all. Truth. So cook or at worst order dinner for his return from work. Thank him for the long hours spent in labor, smile and hug him, meeting him at the door in the evening. Aerobatics - smiling, give him the child and go out for a short walk, you really need a break. And yet - please - let the man see you naked.
It's amazing what a good man can do for a good woman who makes him feel loved. After a few weeks of following these recommendations, relaxing after dinner and a walk, you will sit peacefully and wonder: why didn’t you insist on making love to your husband every night before? Consider how small the investment is – and how big the dividends are.
3. This is a time reserved for just the two of you. Remember that guy? Yes, the one that made your heart beat like crazy, and your palms sweated? The one whose call made you rush headlong to the phone, and soar to the skies, and think that you will never calm down? Well, he's still here. Despite years of household worries, a pile of bills and a bunch of problems, this guy is still in love with his smiling girlfriend and still needs her. Every night after the children have gone to bed, you have a chance to meet him again. This is the best moment to remind yourself that your life is still an exciting adventure and nothing is impossible for the two of you.
4. This is the most effective stress reliever. There is hardly any need for lengthy explanations. This is our life: we go to bed and get up with stress. We eat it for breakfast. However, we have a choice.
There are many ways to let off steam:
- drive at breakneck speed through the city at night;
- break the neighbor's mailbox;
- yell at the cashier in the supermarket;
- or go all out with the guy you once married.
The last option seems to be the most humane. And, by the way, effective. Thanks to this choice, my car is still intact, the mailboxes in my entrance are safe, and the cashiers in the supermarket are alive and smiling.
5. It's such amazing fun! Seriously. Why are we so quick to give up the good things in life? We'll work hard on our kids' algebra homework, sweat in zumba practice, or grit our teeth and pluck our leg hair. But offer us to have marital sex every night - and we will look at the interlocutor as if he were crazy: "Orgasm? Every night? Do I look like a horny nymphomaniac?"
Where is our logic? Are we really too busy with the economy to take part in what inspires geniuses (Shakespeare, for example) and changes the course of history (think of Trojan Helen)? We give up love for borscht and washing dishes. And we live with this strange choice. Has it ever occurred to you that you have to make love to your husband every night just because you deserve it? You deserve it.
So, put the kids to bed tonight. Leave dishes in the sink and floors unsterile. All this will have to wait. Take a moment to remember that you are a woman. The one you always wanted to be. Then approach your husband and remind him that he is the man you have chosen in soul, heart and body. With whom you want to feel one. And love him - long, passionately and tenderly.
Source estet-portal.com
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