The results of an overwhelming number of psychological studies indicate that most women have resorted to faking an orgasm at least once in their lives. Men can also use such deception, but among women this phenomenon is more common, because due to certain characteristics of the female body, the orgasm in the fairer sex is not so pronounced, which gives more opportunities for insincerity. Why do women resort to imitation orgasm and what prevents them from reaching the real peak of sexual pleasure?
Sex as a contest
Many men perceive sex as a sporting event, where someone can demonstrate the best, and someone the worst results. Therefore, women, in order not to disappoint their loved one, try to show themselves in bed from the best side, often overacting with the help of loud moans and screams. However, often, trying to please a partner, the representatives of the weaker sex completely forget about their own feelings, which does not allow them to fully enjoy the process of sexual intercourse.
So, there are two reasons why women resort to imitation of the peak of pleasure. The first is the desire to please the partner in every possible way, enhancing his pleasure in this way. Another reason is the inability to experience orgasm, despite the fact that the first intimate experience took place many years ago.
Sex as a duty
Due to the extreme fragility and sensitivity of female sexuality, it takes a certain amount of time to explore your body and learn how to experience the pleasure of sexual intercourse. Often, women who have begun their intimate life at too early an age or have not yet met a man who is able to reveal the sensuality of a partner perceive sexual intercourse more as a necessary and enjoyable process for a man than as their own pleasure.
Reasons for women's declining interest in sex:
- cooling to partner;
- fatigue, physical discomfort;
- cooling of feelings for a partner, distrust.
Therefore, women prefer to take the easier path rather than trying to figure out their problem with a partner. Such deceit can harm both relationships and mental health.
Subsequently, women who imitate orgasm often experience depression, physical weakness, and irritability. Women mistakenly believe that by simulating an orgasm, they will not give a partner a reason to doubt their attractiveness and sexual abilities.
Sex as a tool of deceit
Men often notice deceit. So, the results of a recent study by Canadian scientists suggest that couples who live together are able to determine the level of partner satisfaction over time. This allows lovers to reach consensus in choosing the format of sexual relations. Therefore, according to experts, it is absolutely pointless to imitate sexual pleasure in a stable relationship, because the partner will still feel the deceit. In order to save a relationship, you should feel free to discuss sexual topics with your partner, instead of ignoring the problem by resorting to deception.
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