How to understand that a man is serious

The magic of first dates fascinates everyone. And especially in the case when you recently found yourself in the status of a single lady. Still: they met, went somewhere, walked, talked, laughed, in a word – great time spent. However, pretty soon, a series of “pouring out” the rendezvous is starting to get boring. Already there is a desire not only to chat, but to talk with the prospect. But how do you figure out what the "kinds" of men on you, is he in the mood for something serious? The questions are important and delicate, they are helped by experts in the field of intergender relations.

Looking for an answer: is the man serious or not

It is curious, tempting and exciting: to find out, to understand how a man treats you, who you have become for him, whether he is making any plans for you.

It's not always an easy task to figure out what's what in a delicate matter – whether the man is serious.

And yet you can find out: You are not indifferent to him if he:

• Tells about himself. And his narration is not like "varnished" election speech, when a person, as a rule, appears as a kind of impeccable personality, & nbsp; a valiant knight, etc. This is a conversation about significant moments in the life of your gentleman, pleasant or difficult situations, about what attracts him, worries, etc. That is, a man seeks to let you understand what he is real, because it is important for him that you actually choose him. Indeed, for relationships based on serious grounds, the main thing is that they love not your retouched image, but you – present.
• Actively and unfeignedly interested in everything that happens and happened in your life, from childhood to today's hobbies, favorite dishes, sweets and ending with the circumstances at work and plans for the future. At the same time, you note that the man listens very carefully. And indeed, he needs to figure out with whom he wants to connect his own life.
• "Reveals" with regards to what he values ​​in general and in relations with a woman, in particular. When a man is really serious, he tries to immediately set certain milestones. He needs to understand whether a long relationship is really possible with you.

But it's worth doubting that a man takes you seriously if he…

• Goes out of his way to please. He agrees in everything, does not enter into disputes, does not contradict anything, he is amused by any of your jokes, that is, he tries in any way to make it clear that he is your ideal. Maybe you really happened to meet your soul mate. But you think so, but on his part, most likely, everything is not so. It's just that the gentleman's plans for your candidacy are not long-term, and therefore it makes no sense to either object or enter into debates. It's easier to convince you that you make an ideal couple, because your relationship will most likely not "survive" before real disagreements. 
• Persistently and enthusiastically broadcasts the idea that "women have changed today", "they only need money from men", that "they strive to give birth as soon as possible and subsequently do nothing, living on alimony". And in general, "it is better for a man to live alone." We note, by the way, that such a man can still be called good and decent, since he does not lead you by the nose, but promises do not understand what. On the contrary, he is honest and open, making it clear that serious relations on his part should not be expected. Therefore, consider this point if you are not ready to just have fun with this person for a couple of months, and then run away.

If a man is serious, he won't say something like – "still so young for kids, family", "wants to travel, get rich" etc., “well, then, perhaps, he will think about how to“ anchor. ”

Take a closer look at your boyfriend: a man who intends to limit the relationship to a couple of meetings, and one who has high hopes for a long life together with you, actually behave differently.