Today, "setting" relations on the – a very popular phenomenon, and Internet pickup gurus generously share recommendations on how to present yourself in the right light: how to communicate, behave, what photo to post. Recommendations are recommendations, and statistics state the following: the number of positive answers is greatly influenced by key phrases used in online dating. Internet sociologists rely in their statements on half a million analysis of the first messages of users when meeting online. As a result, a whole "set" of rules about what should and should not be written when you first communicate with a person.
Important Rules for Online Dating
- Write smart
It is worth learning that Internet jargon, the presence of errors in the letter significantly "extinguish" interest in your person. And since mistakes, in particular, can tell a lot about a person, the dialogue that has begun will most likely end quickly, perhaps it will not happen at all.
But the rule "communication without jargon" there are nice exceptions. "Soft" jargon in the required dosage, which falls both in time and in place, on the contrary, can enrich the “fabric”; conversation. The fact that in this way you express joy, a wonderful mood, show interest in the interlocutor, significantly increases the chances of maintaining a fruitful conversation. After all, we are all drawn to those who have a great sense of humor, and you try to act naturally and provocatively. That is, laughing is allowed, but you should not go too far.
- Attention to detail and communication on certain topics
Conversations on topics that are interesting to you or those that can become common between you and your interlocutor – a long-proven and working method for establishing communication. And the statistics confirm this. In fact, many words can elicit a fairly high response rate. These can be the following marker words that help to identify the interests and hobbies of the opponent and those things that are important and excite him: literature, music, video games, graduation from an educational institution, tattoos, favorite films, sports, fitness, food and much more.
Phrases that make it clear to your interlocutor that you have read his profile, as well as words that arouse the curiosity of your counterpart, have even more effect in communication.
In this case, it is better to "tie up" the dialogue; with words like: "in the questionnaire you write" hellip; "," it is interesting that "hellip;", "your nickname", "I see that you are interested in" hellip; ".
- Do not overuse compliments about appearance
Research states that it is wiser to avoid rather dubious compliments, and this applies to both men and women. However, first of all, men should heed such advice. After all, they are more inclined to talk about appearance. But in reality, words like – "divine", "sexy", "cool" – at the beginning of the acquaintance, not a single representative of the fair sex would want to hear.
In general, people like compliments, but when an opponent you've never seen uses a few frivolous phrases, it's no wonder you start to feel slighted.
At the same time, compliments of a more general nature, according to research statistics, work incomparably better: the words "great", "wonderful", "wonderful" are perceived positively by interlocutors and are more conducive to the one who uses them.
All of the above – basic verbal "canvas", well-established templates that are designed to help you successfully start communication. However, in order to achieve something concrete in the future, a little practice on the Web is needed. We are sure that over time you will be able to bring communication to a new level, and you will offer to meet with a new (th, -th) sign(s) over a cup of coffee, for example, in a cozy cafe.
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