Of course, beauty – one of the most important attraction factors. However, she alone is not enough to attract male attention and build relationships. After all, people communicate with you – personality, not a perfect face or slender legs. Attractiveness – the category is social, and unlike external beauty (harmonious combination of form and color) includes the ability to present oneself to the Other.
1. Fall in love with yourself
Yes, these are common truths, but it is impossible without the basics. Positive self-attitude is one of the main conditions of attractiveness. The fact is that people are not inquisitive enough to look for treasures in the personality of a person who is not interesting to himself. We are unconsciously guided by the setting: if a person is not able to find beauty in himself, then either there is no beauty in him, or a person is not capable of positive feelings for anyone. Anyway, don't waste your time on it.
Therefore, accept yourself, love the good that is in you – the first and obligatory step on the way to gaining attractiveness.
2. Play on your uniqueness
Men like interesting women with personality. Find in yourself attractive features that distinguish you from others, and try to emphasize them. Do not imitate others and do not try to fit yourself to generally accepted standards. You – unique, talented and interesting. Bring your uniqueness to the world.
3. Be healthy and well-groomed
A healthy woman is beautiful. Proper nutrition, balanced physical activity, restful sleep cannot but affect her appearance and energy level. Energy plus beauty – this combination is impossible to resist.
Take care of yourself. Daily home and regular beauty treatments, in addition to their direct functions, are a powerful psychological resource. A well-groomed woman exudes vibes of self-confidence.
4. Avoid unnatural hair and make-up
Many representatives of the fair sex are sure that the most attractive woman is a well-groomed, expensively and elegantly dressed person with perfect make-up and a hair-to-hair hairdo. Men also love well-groomed women, but perfectly well-groomed women are perceived by them as inaccessible and cold.
Imperfect hairstyle with stray “naughty” strands – absolute champion of sex appeal. Flying, slightly careless, shiny and soft to the touch hair makes you want to touch, and therefore the most attractive. It is not necessary to have long hair, but the length should be sufficient to run your hand into it – it is this teasing effect that you should always keep in mind when choosing a hairstyle. Of course, a hairspray shell for a woman who wants to be attractive to men – taboo.
Like the abundance of tone on the face. Concealer, foundation, powder, bronzer – all this perfectly hides skin imperfections, of course. But put yourself in the place of the stronger sex. Would you like to taste such a “pie”?
The more natural a woman looks, the more sexually attractive she seems to men. Keep this in mind when choosing hair dye, make-up shades, styling products and decorative cosmetics.
5. Dress teasing
The language of clothing is especially important at the first meeting.
Most men like it when clothes show off a woman's figure.
Too revealing outfits, of course, attract men's eyes as something curious, but in most cases they do not cause a desire to communicate. Most men in the shower – owners and do not want their woman to be easily accessible to everyone.
The stronger sex does not approve of shapeless clothes (hoodies, huge T-shirts), as well as outfits that distort the proportions of the body (with false shoulders, low or high waist). Too tight clothing looks, according to men, rather repulsive than sexy.
Most men like dresses and skirts more than trousers. Their favorite skirt length is above the knees, of course.
Men are attracted to clothing that intrigues the imagination. The ideal women's outfit is pleasant to the touch, awakens his imagination, makes it possible to understand what is hidden under the “packaging”. And also – emphasizes a man's attention to how easily clothes can be removed. The top buttons of a silk blouse are undone, a long zipper on the dress, a slit on the skirt – perfect triggers.
As for jewelry, the opinions of the representatives of the stronger sex are divided. Some find attractive a lot of thin bracelets that emphasize a woman's wrist, or long earrings. Other men, looking at jewelry, "fantasize" imagine the way jewelry scratches their face when they kiss. However, there is something in which men are unanimous: the main thing – moderation. It's better to wear no jewelry at all than to wear too much.
6. Choose shoes… but be careful
Shoes with thin heels – what men love. The heel makes our legs longer and slimmer, emphasizes their femininity and elegance. The shifted center of gravity increases the deflection in the lower back, which means that the buttocks look more rounded, and the raised chest makes the chest higher. And, according to men, shoes with heels make women… defenseless. This is what attracts men like a magnet. After all, the desire to protect is the basis of male love. He – strong and firmly standing – supports and protects.
Of course, both clothes and shoes must be appropriate for the occasion. The most luxurious shoes will look pathetic and funny, for example, at a country picnic or a long walk through the botanical garden.
7. Pick the right look
According to the expert of the Estet-portal, love-coach, psychologist and writer Oksana Schmidt, a correctly chosen image – basis of female attraction.
8. Get involved
Be part of what's going on. Do not sit in an observer position. Take action! Chat, watch, listen, taste, enjoy, laugh, dance, play. A person who does not seek to taste this life and indifferently observes what is happening from the side does not attract others, because he is deprived of energy, like a deflated balloon. And communication with him promises to be as boring as his facial expression.
9. Know how to keep up the conversation.
In a conversation, try to listen to a man more attentively and with interest than to speak. Be interested, ask questions about his life. Encourage him to be honest. Remember: the more emotionally and more a man tells about himself, the more emotions he shows you, the more he becomes attached to you. Give him the opportunity to tell you everything. At the same time, in no case should you be overly curious. Avoid tactless questions and too fast convergence of – it scares men.
When giving a man priority in a conversation, do not forget that this is still a dialogue. Your interlocutor should not feel like being interrogated. Answer his questions too. Tell something fascinating about yourself: about what you have experienced, seen and heard. Spice up your stories with humor – it always brings you closer.
Another important point: do not ask him about your appearance and in any case do not criticize yourself in front of him! Your lack of confidence in your own irresistibility convinces a man that you are not attractive enough for him. He begins to doubt: perhaps he didn’t see something in you, in fact you are not as good as he thought.
You are not counting on this effect, are you?
10. Be joyful and benevolent.
A rude, quarrelsome person who criticizes everyone and everything is unlikely to cause a desire to communicate with her. Try to see the good in yourself and the people around you, do not skimp on sincere positive emotions. This is the main thing, and the appearance – secondary.
Agree, no matter how luxurious the TV is, the main thing – “picture”, what is happening on the screen. Glowing with benevolence, you broadcast to the men around you the most attractive "picture" for them; – approval and acceptance. Let them feel strong and confident. This is – the most powerful magnet in your hands.
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