The life of a bachelor: how to understand that it's time to tie with loneliness

Scattered socks all over the apartment, breakfasts and dinners in the form of store-bought convenience foods and fast foods, unbridled fun with friends, dancing until the morning – all this is nothing but the life of a bachelor. But she will not always be so carefree and joyful. Sooner or later the moment will come when the feeling of loneliness will imperceptibly absorb you and turn your life into an insignificant and meaningless existence. In order to prevent such a sad ending, it is necessary to recognize in advance the signs that it is time to start a bachelor life and then set off in search of a soulmate. estet-portal.com will help you with this.

What are the benefits of being single

Of course, the life of a bachelor has its advantages, which he can boast of. These are:
•    Complete freedom. You can do whatever your heart desires, go wherever you want and return home when you please.
•    Lack of criticism for not taking out the trash, scattered socks and other mess in the house.
•    Frequent time spent with friends and parents.
•    Sex with any girl you like, without any obligations.
•    No need to puzzle over what to give this for Valentine's Day, an anniversary of a relationship or another holiday.

Existence without a woman is fine, but only up to a certain time. If you seriously get carried away with the bachelor life, joy can be replaced by deep depression and a feeling of loneliness.

The disadvantages of a bachelor's life: what should alert

The life of a bachelor has the following disadvantages:

•    When all your close friends are married and dedicate weekends to their families, there is nothing else left but to communicate with your mother for a long time.
•    Instead of delicious homemade food, store-bought convenience foods and fast foods are in the refrigerator.
•    There is no desire to develop, because there are neither children nor a wife, for the sake of which one wants to achieve something significant.
•    Lack of a regular sex life. Hence irritability and health problems. And if there is sex, then with girls of easy virtue, since there is no permanent partner, and sexual desire must be satisfied.

It's time to change your status from "bachelor" to "family man": main features

At a time when the bachelor's life brings more grief than joy, you need to think about the fact that it's time to look for a mate and get married. The following signs indicate a protracted bachelor life:

•    Nights become restless, cold and lonely. You are constantly tormented by nightmares and insomnia. And instead of a girl, you sleep in an embrace with a pillow.
•    There is an oppressive silence in the morning. And to dilute it, you turn on music or TV.
•    The fridge is always empty. Sometimes there may be rotten cheese and a few cans of beer lying around. The only thing you eat – these are sandwiches, fried potatoes and fast food.
•     You eat not from a plate, but from a frying pan. Wash dishes only if not, why eat. And have dinner sitting on the couch in front of the TV.
•    Complete chaos reigns at home: single socks, candy wrappers, bags, bottles, seeds and other rubbish are scattered everywhere. And take out the garbage only when the whole apartment smells of garbage, the smell of which does not allow you to sleep at night.
•    Laundry is carried out only if there are no clean clothes left in the closet.
•    Your bed is large, but you conditionally divide it into two halves and lie down on the edge. The rest of the bed is occupied by a cat, dog or laptop.
•     You increasingly admire yourself in the mirror and take selfies in the bathroom after taking a shower, near the window or elsewhere.
•    You don't have anyone to spend the weekend with. You spend all your free time either with your mother or in front of the TV with a bottle of beer and chips. And when the holidays come, there is envy of happy friends who have fun with their families.
•    You often reach for booze and cigarettes to relax and relieve nervous tension.
•    You lose your taste for parties until the morning, and for fleeting girlfriends – interest. You have a deep need for spiritual intimacy, companionship and care.
•    You earn so much that there is a desire to spend your money on someone.
•    Someone else's children start to bring a smile to your face. When you see a friend's child, you just want to cuddle his cheeks.

According to scientists, married men live much longer than single men. This is due to the fact that women surround their companion with attention and care.

When the above symptoms occur, only the family can save the situation. Indeed, as practice shows, a married person is more stress-resistant than a single person. So don't waste your time and end your bachelor life. You will not regret it at all: your existence will acquire meaning, and success and long-awaited happiness will not make you wait long.

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