6 rules of boring sex for the purpose of conception

The appearance of a child — great happiness, but at the same time, a great responsibility. When planning a pregnancy, you are ready to follow all the rules and even endure certain inconveniences. However, if it is not possible to get pregnant right away, many women, trying to fulfill all the doctor's recommendations, try to turn the act of love into a planned and planned event.  However, "scheduled" sex on favorable days and even hours, continuous conversations about an exciting topic and your anxieties about this, alas, not only do not add romance to intimate relationships, but, in the long term — able to cool them down. What is the passion here when your head is busy with basal temperature charts and calculations of the moment of ovulation? We offer together with estet-portal.

The basic rule of sex: nothing but sincerity, passion and spontaneity

Probably no need to explain how boredom is dangerous for a harmonious marital relationship. It is she who, as a rule, leads completely normal, and even loving men, into the arms of random companions. Well, if you are trying to turn sex into a mandatory procedure, after which you simply have to get pregnant, is it any wonder that such an "act of love", at best, will not bring much pleasure and may scare a man away. Therefore, just trust the case. If you are healthy and no treatment is needed to conceive, just give in to the feelings, enjoy the moment and "forget" about the schedules. Be only sincere and do not hold back the wildest impulses. But the thought that very soon you will not have such amazing opportunities for making love, it may well add spice to the sensations.<

Avoid talking too much on "exciting topics"

Maybe  Are you worried that your efforts have not yet led to the desired result, and therefore have a habit of having endless conversations regarding the problem of conception? Here in this matter a woman really should control herself. The more you repeat that you are doing everything right, but you are not succeeding, the more your husband will have reason to fear that the problem is in him. Do you really think that making him worry about yourself will improve the situation? And take note of this important rule of sex: it is absolutely inappropriate to have such conversations in bed, they are not very exciting.

Do you want to talk about "it"? Discuss your concerns with a friend or close relative. A man, even the closest, may turn out to be too suspicious, and this will not be reflected in the best way both in the quality of sex and in its quantity. But that's not what you're aiming for, is it?

Taboo on schedules and timetables

Even if you have already compiled a calendar of "good" days, it makes sense to put it out of sight. It is impossible to be passionate on schedule, even the most ardent lover — not a robot with a built-in timer. Even if he can tune in to the "right wave", such sex will not bring you much pleasure. It must be remembered that even if a man also dreams of becoming a father, his attitude to the problem at the level of subconsciousness and physiology differs significantly from that of a woman. And therefore, forget about the schedules, just love each other if you suddenly "covered" or spend a gentle and chaste evening if you are tired or upset. Don't force yourself if you or your partner don't feel like it for some reason.

Scientists are of the opinion that it is quite difficult to determine the exact time of ovulation, the error in the calculations remains quite high. In addition, the viability of spermatozoa is about five days, which means that you should not tie yourself to a certain day.

Consciously abstaining from sex makes sense if you  are undergoing treatment, and this is part of the therapy prescribed by the doctor.

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Medical details are of no interest to anyone

Alas, this will have to come to terms. Not only the calculation of favorable days, but also such an exciting process as measuring basal temperatures or the behavior of an ovulation test — only yours, a purely personal matter. A man can be scared off not only by the manipulations themselves, but by the endless discussion of medical details. Let this area of ​​your life forever remain a part of your mystery. In any situation, adhere to the following rule of sex (works 100%): stay beautiful and exciting for your beloved. Also, do not remind your partner too often that you are not having sex because you feel like it, but solely for the sake of conceiving.

Avoid discussing numerous medical details with your partner, most men are not enthusiastic about such topics.

Stop focusing on conception, enjoy the process

Even dreaming about the upcoming motherhood, do not forget that you are young and attractive, and the sexual component of your married life — one of the greatest pleasures available to man. And therefore, abstracting for a while from the final result, do not forget about such a simple and understandable rule of sex: allow yourself to enjoy the process.

The special charm of the period before conception is that you can finally forget about contraception. And if so, then why not have another honeymoon (a quarter or half a year) and not realize all your most secret fantasies? Try to light up your lover: write playful messages to each other during the day, make dates, let your imagination run wild. Try to focus on the pleasure, not the problems.

It's likely that you're jealous at heart of couples who claim they didn't plan to have a baby at all, it just happened. Alas, it's different for everyone. What to do? Be wise, just accept the situation. If you have been examined and the doctor does not find any special obstacles for pregnancy, you just need to learn how to relax and let life circumstances develop as usual. Do not be nervous and angry, try to learn to perceive the upcoming pregnancy as a pleasant surprise that you will receive when you stop thinking about it every hour. Driving yourself into a state of chronic stress, you will not be able to accelerate the onset of pregnancy.

We have tried to bring to your attention a few rules of sex, a couple of tips and warnings regarding sexual relations in the period before conception and pregnancy. In fact, all you need — is to undergo a medical examination, and, if necessary, follow the doctor's instructions. However, even if your desire to get pregnant is huge, you should not turn lovemaking into a well-regulated procedure, and assign the husband the role of a sperm donor. Of course, sometimes it is easier to advise than to do, but do not overly concentrate on your desire. Much more important, & nbsp; relax and just get the most out of sex in order to conceive — bright, stunning and unforgettable.

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