Psychologists say that even an exemplary family man, who admits the thought of betrayal, sooner or later becomes a victim of adultery. And the more he tries to hide it, the more noticeable it becomes to the second half. Lipstick marks on the shirt, the smell of someone else's perfume, stiff answers on the phone, — all this suggests that you are far from being the only woman in your husband's life.
In order not to find yourself in the role of a deceived wife, we suggest that you familiarize yourself with those signs of behavior that will indicate the betrayal of a loved one and help develop the right strategy.
New Habits — vivid evidence of adultery
Sign #1. Bad memory. All memorable dates seem to have been erased from the memory of the faithful. He even remembers your birthday only after a corresponding reminder. He also "forgets" wear a wedding ring on her finger and prefers to carry it in her jacket pocket. And he does not at all remember the fulfillment of his marital duty.
- The first sign of betrayal — lack of sexual desire and gentle foreplay. Sex comes down to intercourse.
Sign #2. Mistrust. Previously, you could easily send letters from his email box. Now, to enter the computer, you need to know a complex password, supposedly so that, according to your spouse, you do not accidentally delete important documents.
- He used to throw his phone around and often ask you to answer the call. Now he takes his phone with him even to the toilet and is afraid to miss every SMS.
Sign #3. New habits. The brand of cigarettes he buys has become more expensive. A new toilet water appeared on the bathroom shelf, and a lot of other people's words became in the lexicon. Yes, and in the female society, he became more confident, and does not deprive himself of the pleasure of flirting with beautiful strangers.
Clothes as a symbol of treason, or how adultery changes the image
Sign #4. Smell of another woman. He comes home from work with lipstick marks on his shirt and someone else's body odor. And he prefers to cover his scratches with clothes. And even go to bed in a T-shirt.
Sign #5. Image changes. He used to prefer jeans and sweaters, but now — business style. Expensive suits, beautiful shirts and expensive accessories appeared in his wardrobe.
He cares about appearance. Goes to the gym, changed her hair, does a manicure. She answers all questions that it is important to take care of yourself not only for a woman, but also for a man.
Sign #6. Innovations in bed. Unexpectedly, he demonstrates new tricks in bed, answering that he saw such tricks in the movies. True, his sexual behavior may be replaced by a complete lack of interest in intimate life.
Sign #7. Jealousy. A cheating husband expects the same behavior from his wife, so he begins to control her every step. He reads her correspondence, looks through sms-messages and requires strict regulation.
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