How to become a friend to your child from childhood, teach and learn a conflict-free existence next to him, lay the foundation for mutual understanding for the future? Esthet-portal.com. shares effective ways in the upbringing of offspring, which greatly facilitate the life of all family members and reduce the number of conflict situations and stress in the family.
The culture of parenting: simple tips for parents for every day
It is very important not only to be near the child, but also to fully concentrate on him.
When returning home after a day's work, "forget" about the phone, about everything and devote all possible free time to your child (let it be 15 minutes or an hour — depending on the circumstances).
And do it, despite the lack of mood, fatigue, trouble at work — Still, be sure to talk to your child. Often children are busy with their games or doing homework, and for complete happiness it is enough for them that you are nearby and ready to talk at any time.
When going with a preschool child on a long journey (by metro, train, other transport), you can offer to take his favorite book with him. Such a measure teaches the child to entertain himself when necessary. A suitable option in this case would be a picture book in which you want to find characters or objects in the plot maelstrom.
Babies, who are easily alarmed by a new unfamiliar situation, should be warned in advance about what things you are planning. The child will have time to tune in, focus on the upcoming event. For example, let him know in the morning that you are going to a party together in the evening with many children, possibly younger ones, and ask him to be patient with them.
If your baby has fallen, ask him right away if he is hurt or just scared. Often in such cases, children are more frightened or confused. And if this is confirmed, tell a story like the one when you yourself or your dad (aunt, uncle) also fell when you were little. The kids are very fond of such stories, because they keep the spirit up.
Again, if in a certain situation you need to switch the attention of a small child, start telling some story, it doesn’t matter if it’s worldly or fabulous, the main thing is — intrigue at the very beginning.
You will have to fly with the whole family in an airplane. In this case, it is better to purchase tickets for seats in different rows, then first one parent will sit with the children, and the other, respectively, separately. During the flight, periodically change places, so it will be easier for everyone — this is a proven trick.
A wonderful "inspirer" what the child should do on his own, but does not want to and is lazy or stubborn (finish the contents of the plate, clean his own room, tie his shoelaces, etc.), is a stopwatch. With his help, your child will do everything they want from him, much faster.
The kid does not want to go during a walk, he is naughty. Invite him to move around in a different way, thereby making him interested: jumping like a frog, walking, marching, or waddling like a penguin, sneaking like a cat, etc.
Instead of frequently denying sweets to a child, it would be very useful to establish a weekly "candy day" or "cake day." Thus, patience is brought up in children, and this day itself becomes special, expected for them.
Before every parent, literally from the birth of children, the question of their upbringing arises. Of course, this is not an easy task. However, we must never forget that it is a difficult matter only as long as we want to raise our children without educating ourselves.
Therefore, culture in relations with one's own children must be adhered to from the very beginning and in everything.
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