Some smart, kind and beautiful women are unlucky in their personal lives. They always come across either lazy people, or alcoholics, or jealous tyrants, or gigolos… lead to nothing good. Often after them a woman is devastated and becomes unhappy. And, having become a little sad in loneliness, he again steps on the same rake, tying up a relationship with an unworthy gentleman.
I'm sure some of you will recognize yourself here. Why are there only bad men on the way, but there is still no good life partner ? There are several reasons. We will analyze them in the article of the Internet edition estet-portal.com.
1. Bad man: low self-esteem and self-doubt
2. Confidence that there are no good men
3. Too much naivety attracts bad guys to life
4. You can't say "No!" people with ex
6. A bad man in a woman's life because of the fear of being alone
Self-doubt leads to the fact that a woman does not understand men. Often she chooses the first person who pays attention to her.
Many of them stay and poison life, and some leave, leaving them with broken hopes, inner emptinessand even more low self-esteem and self-doubt.
Confidence that there are no good men Very often women step on the same rake for one reason – good men don't exist. Such a belief often appears after the first unsuccessful experience in a relationship. For example, a girl fell head over heels in love with a bad man who cheated on her with her best friend or brutally left her, taking advantage of her gullibility. But the very first relationship is stored in the subconscious mind for life. Or the girl takes over the family model, where the father drinks, does not earn money and raises his hands to his mother. Therefore, women simply do not notice the good guys, continuing to cry and suffer, passing
from one tyrant to another. In fact, good guys do exist. Perhaps just "the one" not met yet.Too much naivety attracts bad guys to lifeNaivety – this is a wonderful feminine quality, but in a relationship with the "wrong" as a man she can take away freedom and destroy happiness.
Gullible girls are attractive in the eyes of
bad men
. After all, such naive women are easy to manipulate. So, a girl, having heard sweet words about love and feelings from an unworthy guy, is ready to run after him even to the ends of the world. Often she dissolves into him, sacrificing her "I". And the unworthy gentleman is glad of that. Having driven into his networks, he can manipulate his victim as he pleases. And in this way he gets everything he wants.You don't know how to say "No!" People who have a good heart, can't say no
and don't dare to talk about their true feelings, are most often manipulated by colleagues, friends, relatives and bad men. It is soft-hearted girls who attract natural manipulators who, with their cunning tricks, do everything possible so that instead of "no" said yes. And most often the victims, without realizing it , agree to something that later can cause them pain and disappointment, for example, intimacy on the second day after they met.Past in present: comparing young people with ex Of course, each of us from time to time thinks about first love and former boyfriends. But constantly live in the past – this is a bad idea. After all, by comparing every young man with your ex, you will attract exactly the same guys into your life. In addition, if you constantly live in the past, and not in the present, there is a great risk of missing out on a good guy
with whom you could build a normal relationship. Own development is also slowed down, there is a degradation of the personality, which is badly reflected not only on personal life, but also on career and relationships with others. 
Many girls have such a stereotype that after 25-30 years a woman begins to age. And if by this time you do not get married and do not give birth to a child, then you will have to spend the rest of your life alone. The fear of being left alone and being wanted by no one pushes many of the fair sex into relationships with the first men who come across, who bring only disappointment. And after another breakup, literally a few days later they again rush headlong into new relationships with unworthy gentlemen, just not to while away all the remaining days alone.
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