Psychologists are convinced that the newlyweds should not go on a honeymoon trip after the wedding. Where it would be more correct to spend a joint vacation at the resort before the solemn painting ceremony. After all, rest is sometimes better than any life hardships that allows you to get to know each other.
It often happens that the days and nights spent together turn into torture, so much so that upon arrival, the spouses, who have a decent experience of living together, decide to disperse. And all because despite the entertaining excursions, the comfort zone was not taken into account. Our advice will help prevent such fatal mistakes for relationships.
To each — his own: for wives — boutiques, for men — fishing
Tip #1: Go with two people. Men send their wife to a resort alone when they are sure that their feelings are strong, and wives - are reliable. Most often, this is exactly the case. But the rules of the holiday romance imply their exceptions. The freshness of emotions and the idealization of a nearby man sometimes makes a woman not only fall into his arms, but also reconsider her social status. Divorce is inevitable.
Tip #2: Arrange on the beach. You dreamed of discovering new places and combining excursions with shopping every day. Your other half is not at all ready to visit cultural places, and even more so — boutique galleries: the ultimate dream of — is a fishing rod in his hands and a quiet place in the local harbor.
- Designate the range of your interests before leaving: this will allow you to avoid misunderstandings and insults in the future.
School of Conflict: why you shouldn't slide into quarrels
Tip #3: Don't make a showdown. Family ups and downs on vacation are as natural as the sound of the surf. If you catch yourself thinking that you are ready to throw a tantrum, and your husband, waiting for her, begins to ply in the other direction, walk along the shore. And then return to your beloved and offer to take a double. Such jokes-jokes help to avoid conflict. Also, remember that everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Especially when he is in a new place for him.
Tip #4: Don't entertain others. It is not at all necessary to jump around your beloved and make him grin, depicting a smile. You don't have to entertain him like Petrushka at the fair. If he doesn't feel well —give a pill.
- If the husband wants to take a break from the bustle and be in silence, - provide this opportunity and do not break your plans for the evening.
Money down the drain: do not skimp on the joys of life
Tip #5: Take care of cash. Forced savings can ruin any vacation. If you do not have the opportunity to spend two weeks at the very blue sea, go for one. But on the condition that you will not hide from the waiter approaching the table and will not refuse the proposed excursions in exchange for keeping money in your wallet.
Tip #6: Think about yourself. Go to the resort not because it is fashionable or prestigious, but because you need it. Be guided by the fact that this will help expand the boundaries of your consciousness and accumulate strength for the next year. And, of course, strengthen relationships with your soulmate. Fortunately, you already know what mistakes should not be made.
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