At first glance, making a marriage proposal to your beloved is quite simple. At the same time, there are a lot of different nuances that should be taken into account, because for women this moment – one of the most important moments in life. In the article we will talk about how to propose to a girl so that you want to remember these moments again and again.
How to propose to a girl correctly
Discuss the possibility of family life
Before proposing, discuss how you imagine family life. This conversation is to make sure that your aspirations are the same and that you are both ready to become a family.
Select a moment
Marriage proposal should be a surprise, so your task – to pick up the moment when the beloved will not expect it.
Special Wedding Ring
This is one of the most important points, because the ring that you give, your chosen one will always wear, so it must be perfect. It will be better if your sister, mother, or a close friend of the bride will help you in this difficult matter.
Talk to her parents
The times when a girl did not have the right to marry without the consent of her parents are left behind, but still, such a step will not be superfluous. Get the blessing of parents – it is very touching and if you have a good relationship – why not take the opportunity to get closer to future relatives.
Determine your location
Before you propose, be sure to choose a special place to do so. Perhaps you remember the place where you met or kissed for the first time. You can also play a walk in nature and make an offer in the forest, on the banks of the river or the sea.
Get on one knee
Some might think it's old-fashioned, but still, most girls find this gesture insanely romantic.
Tell her why you want to marry her
This means that just saying the cherished phrase is not enough. Your chosen one will be very pleased to hear that she is the only one for you, why you want to start a family with her and how you see a common future.
In order not to spoil the cherished moment, try to avoid these common mistakes:
- Don't hide wedding ring in food. Everyone loves surprises, but this trick – beaten thought. Everyone has seen such moments in a thousand shows and films, so you can’t call such an original idea. Moreover, a romantic evening can end in the dentist's office.
- Don't turn the offer into a show. If your sweetheart has not stated herself that she would like the marriage proposal to turn into a noisy event, it is better to organize something more touching.
- Do not propose in front of the whole family. Choose a time and place where you can be just the two of you. Proposal of the hand and heart, pronounced in front of the whole family – extra stress that is best avoided.
- Don't make it too complicated. Ingenuity – this is very good, but the main thing in this business – don't overdo it. If you are too clever, you can completely forget about why all this is being done at all.
- Don't rush. Propose to a girl immediately after meeting – not the best solution. It is better to wait until the relationship has time to stabilize, you get to know each other better and make sure that you are ready to live your whole life with this person.
- Don't rush her. You should not expect that she will immediately answer “yes”, because marriage – quite a responsible step. If your fiancee said "I'll think about it", try to take it properly and give her time to think.
This ritual – a very important part of the relationship and the moment of the proposal should be remembered for a lifetime. To make the memories the most pleasant, adhere to certain rules, the main details, of course, remain yours.
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