Spoiled child: why he behaves this way and what to do

When we hear the words "spoiled child", we usually imagine a little monster smeared with cream and ink, screaming and stomping feet. But how true is this picture? Which child is called spoiled, and who? Is should parents really worry if their child is naughty? Maybe. But often the problem is not with the child, but            

• Fidget: a child who is always in movement
• Fussy: baby refuses food
• Why: he asks too many questions
• Fiend of Hell: how to deal with childish tantrums

Fidget: a child who is constantly in movement

Let's say your teacher complains about your first grader. "He you so spoiled!" It turns out that the child does not want to sit quietly at the desk, gets up without permission, distracts other children, plays.

But excuse me, is really the baby? It has long been proven that the education system inherited from the USSR is not well suited for young children. It’s difficult for a child to sit and listen to a teacher for forty-five minutes, he can’t concentrate on one thing for so long, and a child’s energy needs to be released. The modern elementary school has all the possibilities for organizing the educational process according to age needs. The lesson may include active games, warm-up, watching cartoons, five minutes of rest. Ask if this is the case in your class, and if there are the child's ways to expend energy in different ways.

Of course, the problem may also be in hyperactivity of the child. In this case, it is worth consulting with a child psychologist, perhaps changing classes or even switching to home schooling. But  pampering has nothing to do with 

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"Your spoiled child won't eat anything!" As a rule, this is stated by the kindergarten teacher or grandmother — that there those who feed the child in the absence of the parents. But there there nothing at all the child can can . Therefore, it is necessary to control what and when the baby eats.

Often the parents are really to blame for the fact that the child is naughty at the table. In the morning before the kindergarten, the mother gives the child a cookie, candy or a sandwich with butter. This is enough to "kill your appetite": the kid will no longer want to have breakfast in the dining room. It may very well be that he will refuse dinner: after all, on a walk, his mother will pick him up and give him candy or a banana again. But to educate in this case, it is necessary not to child, but mother. If the food in the kindergarten does not suit you, deal with the head, and finally, change the kindergarten.  Otherwise — don't  let your baby have a snack, it's just bad.

But it is different. For example, a grandmother complains about her grandson's appetite — which, out of good intentions, offers the child wholesome fish and boiled vegetables. And most kids don don like fish and vegetables, especially if they don't fed them at home. Some children flatly refuse milk, especially warm and with foam. Others don't like meat or mushrooms. In  in this case, it is worth listening to  the preferences of the child. He will not want to eat candy — it is a myth. Most children willingly eat ordinary food. And if you disregard your baby's tastes and force-feed, that will be the first step to 

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Why: he asks too many questions Your child is constantly asking questions. Neither one order, nor one request can go without clarifications — «and why?» or «and why?» Such meticulousness can tire even parents, not to mention outsiders. They throw in hearts: «What he you spoiled!».

Maybe it really is. Take a closer look: it is important for a child to know what is happening and why, or the little trickster is just fooling your head so that you get rid of it. If questions are a way to evade things, let him know that you've got him. Stand on and and ensure that s satisfy  But & nbsp; if the baby is really interested in the details, stock up on patience, knowledge and & nbsp; answers. In the end, perhaps this is a future inventor, psychoanalyst or investigator.

Fiend of Hell: how to deal with childish tantrums

Well here we and got close to the type of spoiled child beloved by filmmakers. The naughty little monster throws toys, throws himself on the floor, yells and demands to give him everything at once. This — hysterics. The state of hyperexcitation, in which the child does not control himself, and which he cannot stop.

Not all children are prone to regular tantrums. To do this, the baby must be excitable. Children, in whom excitation noticeably outstrips inhibition, really need to be handled carefully, without provoking outbursts of feelings. But be careful. If the tantrums have become regular, it's definitely not all right. At at best — you are being manipulated. The kid knows that when he begins to beat on the floor, he will finally get the adult attention he needs. Let's face it: for your child, this is the shortest and easiest way to desired.

Worst  — it is a symptom of a disease of the nervous system. Consult your doctor.

So, if you are told that a child is spoiled, check if everything is all right with the world around you,    you                  And and then you can sigh sadly and agree: "Yes, it seems we spoiled him..."

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