Everyone knows that men – from Mars, and women – from Venus. Therefore, the list of misunderstandings between different sexes is never reduced, and even vice versa – is growing every year. Both of them have a list of unpleasant qualities, habits or character traits that are very annoying in each other. Today we will plunge into the world of men.
Do you want to know exactly what not to do and how not to behave with women in order not to be considered an unpleasant type? Then catch the top of unpleasant male qualities according to women around the world, which was selected by estet-portal.com. Read, memorize and adopt, gentlemen!
What unpleasant masculine qualities annoy women all over the world
Just a few days ago, the global network was shaken up by a rating compiled by users of the most popular Western Internet portal Reddit. In it, the ladies discussed male traits that the representatives of the stronger sex themselves consider normal or even positive, but women are embarrassed or, moreover, enraged.
The publication is based on life stories and personal experiences of many readers of the platform. The topic turned out to be painful, because the original post collected more than 40 thousand comments in just a day after publication!
What's missing here: a man's refusal to ask for help if he doesn't know the way, love for tight jeans, washing his body with expensive women's shampoo instead of his soap, ignoring a girl after initially showing interest in her, spitting in the street, nude photos genitals when not asked for, deliberately rude to appear more brutal and masculine.
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There were also general criteria for unpleasant masculine qualities, which allow us to single out the most annoying traits or habits in a separate rating.
Avarice
Generous man – ideal, miser – every girl's worst nightmare. Male greed can safely lead our anti-rating. After all, every woman at least once in her life had a chance to endure a date with a gentleman who was greedy even for a cup of coffee and dessert in a cafe. And the lady, meanwhile, spent more than one hour preparing for the date and, most likely, a lot of money.
So, men, if you have shown interest in a girl, try not to spoil the impression with stinginess.
"I'm right because I – man»
Male chauvinism is still ineradicable, and often it spoils the mood not only for feminists, but also for ordinary average women.
To stand your ground, no matter what, not listening to the reasoned opinion of your woman and constructive criticism – this is not principle. This is stubbornness and narrowness of thinking.
Listen to your soul mate – even if she is not always right, your desire to find a compromise will turn into warm gratitude. Because the famous Internet aphorism "You can be infinitely right, but what's the point if your woman is crying?" taken from life.
Sleazy
Yes, yes, in our age of metrosexuals and barbershops it is still not uncommon for a man to think that clean nails or freshly shaved armpits – this is the lot of "cleansers" and "mama's sons", and a real man should be so brutal, as if he had just crawled out from under the dirty hood of a tractor!
It would seem that such trifles – clean neat clothes, the smell of a fresh body, clean hair, a neat haircut and well-groomed nails (hygienic manicure, by the way, is done quickly and is inexpensive). But it is they who create a general subconscious impression of a person and cause sympathy. Or vice versa.
Mama's Boy
No woman likes to constantly hear that her mother cooks borsch better and saves the family budget better. Mom also thinks it's time to have grandchildren and that decent women don't go out with their friends until 11 pm.
Men, if there are so many mothers in your life, then maybe you should stay with her? And if you have already matured to adult relationships and the creation of a family, then the word "mother" you should strictly dose in communication with your soul mate. Male infantilism no one likes – and dot.
Complaints about the unfairness of the world and envy of successful people
Yes, melancholy can sometimes roll over every person. Especially if you see on Instagram how a former classmate flew to a fashionable resort for the fifth time in a year and updated his car fleet, and you can only afford the domestic sea coast in the summer and the old Zhiguli.
But! A couple of times a year they complained – that's enough. The rest of the time it is better not to be passive, but to devote time to actions so that in a few years they will envy you. A woman wants to feel like behind a stone wall, and not be this very wall instead of a man in a relationship.
"This is not a man's business…"
Nowadays, in most families, a man and a woman work an equal amount of time and are equally tired at work. Therefore, men, believe me, there is nothing worse after a hard day's work than to come home and see the "king of nature" on the couch in front of the TV, dejectedly asking: "When is dinner?".
Many men somehow got used to justify their own laziness and unwillingness to help around the house with the fact that these are allegedly not men's duties. What is the logic here – it is not clear, because both earn money, both want to eat, both of them also know how to use household appliances. And if helping with cleaning or cooking is not a man's business, then perhaps working and earning money for the family – also not a woman's duty?
Three years of waiting for the promised
No wonder the saying: «Promise– does not mean to marry invented by men. How else to explain the favorite habit of many to promise to do something/repair/set up/deliver – and end up doing it only after the fifth reminder of a white-hot angry woman?
We made a promise – do it, because no one pulled the tongue. Otherwise, what is man's power? Only in responsibility for their words and deeds.
Of course, perfection will never be achieved, but it must be striven for. Maybe the list of unpleasant male qualities will never completely disappear, but a sharp reduction in the number of its items will already become a balm for the female soul. And believe me, there is no one more caring and better than a grateful and beloved woman! Respect each other and always listen to the opinion of your soul mate!
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