Psychology

How to become happy: Women's mistakes that can cost a happy relationship

Unhappy relationship – a problem, the search for the root of which often causes difficulties for women. Family life – a much more complicated option, involving more responsibility, troubles and problems, especially if there are children in the family. Many women are perplexed why everything does not turn out the way they want, they blame others, circumstances and the beloved man for everything. However, it is important to understand that a happy relationship – it is hard work that both partners must do.

Today we will talk about the most common female mistakes that prevent building a happy relationship, and consider options for preventing and / or correcting them.

Women's Mistake #1 – unnecessary teachings

Because of their nature, women tend to talk more than men, and not always to the point. In this case, we are talking about one of the most favorite women's activities – teachings. This female mistake lies in the fact that instead of a reasoned approach to the problem and the search for constructive ways to solve it, a woman proceeds to an empty brain peck, the purpose of which is nothing more than to "teach life" his chosen one, who in this case plays the role of a victim.

Women's Mistake #2 – always extreme

The "all or nothing" approach has already played a cruel joke with many women, the rest risk their psyche, health and happy relationships when:

Option A: women devote all their free time and energy to their beloved and relationships. Such a development of events is fraught with the loss of individuality and self-worth.

Option B: women cannot switch to the middle level of settings between the leader, in which everyone walks on the line, and option A. The consequence of this behavior is the man's loss of interest in sex with such a commander.

What to do? Understand what you need, and do not sacrifice yourself for the sake of your beloved things that are unacceptable for this. Understand that the appearance of a beloved man in life will not always solve all your problems. If you do not find time for yourself and your favorite activities, self-care and self-development, no one will do it for you!

Women's Mistake #3 – failure to convey information

A happy relationship with a man who absolutely does not understand what his beloved wants, – Utopia. Returning to mistake No. 1, we remind you that constant reproaches do not benefit a man, do not make him happy, and the only motivation that a partner receives from this – go in search of another partner.
What to do? Psychologists advise to cherish in a man the responsibility for his beloved and her feelings. To achieve the development of this feeling, you can use the correct construction of phrases: "I'm upset because I thought you would understand me." The feeling of discomfort that a man experiences if his lady is sad through his fault, he wants to experience as little as possible, so he tries not to repeat his mistakes in the future.

Women's Mistake #4 – unawareness of happiness

What is a happy relationship? It is logical to assume that in a feeling of happiness. However, many women are faced with such a problem as the lack of a clear definition for themselves of the very essence of this illusory happiness. One of the reasons for such difficulties is the shortcomings of parents who tend to reward their children for good behavior, but for some reason forget about the formation of the concept of happiness that an adult child will carry through life and to which he will strive. All this is reflected in relationships. Therefore, in order to become happy, try to understand what happiness is for you, cultivate this feeling in yourself!

Women's Mistake #5 – lack of affection

Unfortunately, as they grow up and gain life experience, many girls and women, trying to protect themselves from the mistakes of past relationships, afraid of being deceived, practically lose their desire and / or ability to show affection. And a man often lacks this childishly simple tenderness, affection and care.
Remember that a man also needs to feel love and care, he is not as rude and insensitive as it may sometimes seem.

Women's Mistake #6 – a man is not given a word

Men and women are different. If he believes that living with a woman – in itself an irrefutable proof of love, then the fair sex does not understand how happy relationships can be built without communication and dressing the beautiful intentions of a man in verbal form. If a woman's ear doesn't get her dose of verbal evidence of love, her brain will begin to build incredible theories and interpret a man's behavior as it sees fit.
What to do? It is important to understand the difference in the thinking of men and women: the former think more generally, seeing the big picture and not being distracted by trifles.

The fragmentary nature of the female view of what is happening leads to misunderstandings. Psychologists offer an entertaining game: ask your lover to regularly say 5 affectionate words in return for his requests. For example, he asks you to warm up dinner, while saying how much you are loved, sweet, etc. However, be careful, remember that for such games you also need to choose the right moment, otherwise you risk hearing words with a slightly different emotional coloring.

Women's Mistake #7 – unawareness of beauty

It is unpleasant for a man to realize that a woman prefers to preen herself for other people, and not to appear before his eyes in the best possible way. Remember to look good – this is one of the main tasks of a woman, the failure of which is a gross mistake that can nullify any happy relationship.

Briefly about how to become happy:
1. Please yourself daily.
2. Walk 4 km daily.
3. Drink water.
4. Appreciate yourself as often as possible.
5. Devote the morning to your favorite activities.
6. Once a week, give yourself a day of complete idleness.

Well, the most basic – create beauty consciously together with Estet-portal!


  • Comments (1)

    Не баба#1326
    31 мая 2017, 10:28

    Не всё тут правда. Очень много всего. вот например, я работаю и я готовлю и мою посуду, и вставляю жене каждый день, а она просто не убирает за собой не моет, где возьмет там и кинет...короче *** есть двое детей у нас.Уже из соц сетей удалил её и все ровно эта лень и нехватка времени у неё.


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