For many, the fact that the fair sex can have sexual fantasies that they would like to fulfill not with a constant life partner is still unusual. It has already become established in the public consciousness that women are less interested in the intimate side of relationships than men, and therefore the former are less likely to cheat. However, numerous studies on this topic show that gender differences in the issue of cheating do not have a significant difference.
Causes of female infidelity: the root of the issue
Women are more interested in emotional intimacy in sex, and men are mainly interested in the feeling of novelty in this matter. Therefore, the beautiful half of humanity in most cases is "forced" by change the loss of internal communication with your regular partner.
At the same time, a woman is fully aware that her infidelity is a destructive factor in their union, and she can cause severe psychological trauma to her partner. But, nevertheless, communication on the side continues. Why? What drives her? Let's take a closer look.
Low self-esteem pushes adultery
In our opinion, one of the main reasons for female infidelity is low self-esteem. A constant desire to please the opposite sex leads women through life, and thereby fuels interest in the latter, gives it a taste. A woman just needs to feel her sexual attraction – it gives her self-confidence. Such a substitution of love and attention from the outside allows you to increase your own significance.
Loss of intimacy – another step towards treason
Often a woman feels like a loving mother, a homemaker, a caring teacher, and sometimes the main breadwinner of the family when she is financially successful. Such confusion in roles often pushes a woman into new relationships in which she can feel weak and where only herself will be taken care of.
At the same time, a constant life partner may well satisfy a woman sexually. But in a new connection, constant care is important for a lady, what they think about her: they often call, give gifts, communicate confidentially, in every possible way show her significance in the life of the chosen one. Representatives of the strong half of humanity require such a demonstration of emotional connection to a lesser extent, and this is often the cause of misunderstanding of the parties.
High expectations from a partner and lack of sex
Most women imagine ideal relationships with men from positions that are difficult to achieve. They are sure that if they consider their partner to be the best, then he should only guess their moods and desires with the power of thought. And that they can always find support, support and understanding in him. But when one day this sense of security and endless understanding is lost (which is inevitable, since relationships never develop smoothly, they are characterized by ups and downs), then self-esteem pushes them to seek such support outside the family.
As for the sexual side of relationships, contrary to popular belief, women by nature enjoy physical intimacy no less than men. It happens that the sexual temperament of a woman exceeds the demands of her partner. Then some ladies also prefer to start a relationship on the side, finding in it what they lack in the prevailing union.
Be that as it may, one must always remember that any betrayal always carries with it a negative. And whatever the reasons for female infidelity, it’s not the fact of what happened (or ongoing) that is terrible, but the feeling with which she will continue to live, both the traitor herself and her victim: after all, sooner or later, the partner will still find out the unpleasant truth.
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