Body language: sexual gestures of women and men

Smooth the corners of misunderstanding between the sexes by studying the so-called body language. If you know the special gestures that speak for themselves, you can always understand your interlocutor even without words. Today, the editors of the Estet-portal will help you get acquainted with some of the features of sexual behavior and sexual gestures of women and men.

What is the secret of body language

The main secret of body language is its understanding and perception by the opposite sex. It is worth noting that often with an incorrect interpretation of certain gestures emanating from the opposite sex, it becomes the cause of a conflict situation.
Therefore, today we will tell you about sexual gestures, which often express relationships of the opposite sex. As a rule, the manifestation of such gestures by a man is directed to a certain woman, and for women – for men in general. In any case, to understand each other, you need to know them.

Sexual gestures of women and men

There are various sexual gestures that are common to women and men. They show interest and a desire to interest a member of the opposite sex. Let's start with sexual gestures that are common for women and men:

Fingers are placed in the belt, pockets or purse.
Hands on hips.
Legs wide apart.
An intimate look or a sideways glance.
Frequent short glances into the eyes.

In addition, there are certain behavioral patterns common to women and men:

Copy the behavior of the object you like.
The dilation of the pupils during communication is a sign that the interlocutor likes you, and the narrowing – that you are unsympathetic to him.
If your partner likes you, then first he looks into your eyes for no longer than 5 seconds, and then his gaze will go down.

But still, there are more differences in behavior and sexual gestures between women and men. So, for example, women first of all look at the shoulders and arms, if possible, at the legs of a man. At the same time, a man initially evaluates the image and figure of a woman, and only then concentrates his attention on certain parts of the body.

Women's sexual gestures

Women's sexual gestures are significantly different from men's. Thus, such a demeanor and the following sexual gestures are considered more characteristic:

When a woman feels a man's gaze on her, she automatically starts straightening her hair and clothes.
Sharp movement of the head to push the hair out of the face. This movement is inherent even in those with short hair.
Slowly crossing and straightening the legs in a sitting position.
While walking, the back is straight, the chest is pushed forward, the hips sway rhythmically.
Stroking the parts of the legs with the hand.
The swaying of the shoes on the tips of the fingers also indicates that the woman feels comfortable around this man.
Slowly cross the legs and slowly return the legs to the starting position.
Wrist demonstration — a woman interested in a potential sexual partner will periodically show him the smooth, delicate skin of her wrists.
Smiles slightly, then lowers her eyelids and looks away ("coquette look").
Stroking a cylindrical object (cigarettes, stems of a glass).
If a woman likes a man very much, she tends to accidentally sit closer to him than to the others.

Interest is also indicated by eye contact, when a woman sits in front of a man and looks him straight in the eyes. True, men can interpret this as aggression or hostility towards him.

Sexual gestures of men

Sexual gestures of men are mainly intended for a certain object of reclining. Therefore, it is often typical for men:

Spread your legs wide. And regardless of whether the man is standing or sitting. It is clearly visible in the subway, where men, especially young ones, often sit opposite women with their legs wide apart, as if demonstrating their "housekeeping". Although many women find this gesture repulsive.
Do not stop looking at the face, but slides over the entire body of a woman, as if "undressing" her.
Place your palms on your hips.
To straighten hair, tie, shirt collar, jacket lapels, touch throat.
When a woman appears, he straightens his shoulders, plays with his muscles, stretches.
Walk back and forth.
In a sitting position, stretch your legs.

All of the sexual gestures and behaviors described above can be shown simultaneously to several potential partners, and then response signals are expected. The choice of several respondents falls on the one who makes the most sexual gestures in response. It happens subconsciously.

Of course, it is worth noting that not all men and women fully comply with this model of sexual behavior and use the listed sexual gestures. The editors of Estet-portal halt are only an approximate list of sexual gestures, which is typical for the majority, but is not the only correct one. We sincerely wish you to always correctly perceive the signs sent and reach mutual understanding with your partner.