Большая разница в возрасте между мужчиной и женщиной: бывает ли любовь

Olivier Sarkozy and Mary-Kate Olsen, Aaron Johnson and Sam Taylor-Johnson, Woody Allen and Soon-I Previn, Alla Pugacheva and Maxim Galkin. What do these star couples have in common? And the fact that the age difference between their partners is more than 15 years and this did not prevent them from being in love, happy and having a strong relationship.

And yet, opinions are divided into two strong fronts: someone believes that all this is nonsense, PR, pure profit, perhaps it's all about childhood trauma, while others are convinced that love is for all ages submissive and for her there are no boundaries.

Read on estet-portal.com is there an ideal age difference between a man and a woman for a strong relationship.

Age: convention or real barrier

Ancient Vedic treatises say that a man must certainly be older than a woman. A girl needs to be married, to feel his greatness, he must be more realized, then she can completely and completely trust him. But the age difference between them should be up to 5 years. But what if the man is younger than his beloved? Will there be an emotional barrier, because a man is worried even when he is shorter than a woman?
 

 

And yet, in history there are vivid examples of love affairs "with a happy ending" that arose between a man and a woman with a huge difference in

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Is there an ideal age difference between partners

A million and one questions and as many "buts".

With confidence, psychologists assure that the most ideal age difference between a man and a woman is the limit of up to ten years, because women "get wiser"; faster. By that time, men get smarter, do not react so violently to women's "tricks", become more accommodating.

But the larger this "chasm", the more difficult it is to find common ground.

Many non-psychologists claim that this is all convention. All people are different and most importantly – find your person with whom you will feel comfortable. Even if she (and not he, as is commonly believed) is 15 years older than him.



More than 10 years difference


Relationships «10+» most often built on the principle of "child-parent". Accordingly, if in a couple a man is older than – it means that the girl wants that wisdom and care that she probably did not receive from her father. She needs help, she needs someone to solve her problems for her and wants to hear life advice in difficult times. In turn, the chosen one feels a certain responsibility for you, as for a daughter.

In such a relationship, a woman requires stability, calmness and hopes for a reliable rear, and that she will feel next to a man, like behind a stone wall. Unfortunately, peers will not be able to share such experience with a girl.

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20 years difference


A woman in this period – a funny predator and is still looking for adventure on her still elastic ass and craves unbridled fun. A man comes to that period of time when he, who has already experienced a midlife crisis, wants a quiet lifestyle: to find a family, so that his wife gives birth to a son and a sweet daughter, plant a tree, build his dream house, and light a fire in the evenings or in the fireplace, or still passion.

With the onset of the golden age (closer to 30 years), the libido of the fair sex increases, sexual pleasures become a priority, and for men who are approaching the equator, so to speak, centuries of life, on the contrary, sexual activity is declining. Unfortunately, it is on the basis of "I want, but I can not" a

couple has disagreements.


Benefits of the age difference between a woman and a  man  When there is a significant difference in age between a man and a woman – this has clear advantages. Let's talk about them.

• Wisdom

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• Financial condition

No matter how trite it may sound, you cannot close your eyes on the material condition of your narrowed eyes. If a man is 15 years older than you, then he most likely has a stable financial situation. If there is no – it raises questions.

• Your youth

Against his background, you will always be young and beautiful. And he, in turn, will glow with happiness, introducing you to his friends and catching the envious glances of acquaintances.

 



• Experience

He will teach you some cool kitchen hacks he learned from his grandma, and you will discreetly toss him the book 50 Shades of Grey. (if you know what they are talking about).

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• The opportunity to draw something useful from each other


It will be interesting with him: he will introduce you to many interesting people who are sure to
find in his environment. Disadvantages of the age difference between a woman and a man  Unfortunately, the age difference between a man and a woman – this is not always good and can often be difficult. 

• Public opinion

"You look at them like father and daughter", "yes she is 100% with him because of the money", "he has obvious deviations" and 1001 more phrases that you will repeatedly hear in your address.

• Different way of life

Unfortunately, there may be a conflict of interests and views on certain things. You will want to take a noisy walk in a bar on Friday, and he will prefer a quiet evening watching a movie. although it might be the other way around.

• Companies

He may not be interested in what your environment is interested in and vice versa. He will not keep up a conversation with your friends, and you will experience discomfort when communicating with his comrades. Although, maybe this is a plus, because you will have time to relax from each other.

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• Family Attitude
Perhaps your mother dreamed of a young handsome son-in-law, and not a man who is slightly younger than herself, but the father will have something to talk about with your chosen one. And by the way, maybe your man does not have a sister, and his mother dreamed of a daughter. Therefore, if you approach this issue from the other side, then a clear disadvantage will turn into an advantage.

 


Love conquers all ages!

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He who does not take risks does not drink champagne! If you are ready for difficulties, boldly withstand all obstacles, then why not? The difference in age between a woman and a man is taboo for some, but for others, another convention that does not matter. age and imposed stereotypes. There is only "you" and "he". After all, love has no such thing as a "border" and it is not subject to the canons.

Let's say you're 18 and you're really incredibly happy with a lover who is a little over 30, or you're a guy who is passionately in love with a girl "over 35" – do you still have to worry about the opinions of strangers? xxxx>

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