Probably, every girl imagines a meeting with her prince as the main event in her life, after which the happiest days come. But after meeting some "princes" the problems are just beginning. This is especially true if the man is a womanizer. And "innocent" a first date with him can drag you into a years-long maelstrom of a toxic relationship if you don't immediately recognize the threat.
How to determine that this is the type you are facing: a man for whom relationships have nothing to do with trust and fidelity?
Signs of a womanizer man: how to spot a womanizer
Charming, attractive, the soul of the company — this is how a man-womanizer most often appears in the female imagination. And most often he really is like this: with well"hanging tongue" and knowing how to impress. But does mean that any charismatic man — womanizer? No. This personality trait of a man can be seen through a stylish hairstyle and fashionable wardrobe in the form of almost imperceptible details.
1. Avoids eye contact
The womanizing man avoids looking you in the eyes. Even when you have a really engaging conversation, he will prefer to look at cars passing by or the waitress passing by your table. And the short glances he casts —— this is not the desire to fix your emotions and facial expression at one moment or another, but an assessment of the situation: how much you have already succumbed to his tricks. Do not be deceived if the womanizer still looks into your eyes. If at the same time he twirls a wine list in hands, crumples a napkin, or aimlessly taps his finger on the table — this may mean that he subconsciously tries to switch your attention to movement in his hands and break eye contact. True, he can be a really romantic man who gets very nervous on the first date.
2. Not interested in your life
Average womanizer — this is a disgusting actor who cannot & nbsp; get used to a role that is unnatural for him. He knows that questions about your hobbies, work, family will help him impress. But since in fact he is indifferent It's more like an interview than not dialogue. Having received an answer to his question, the womanizer does develop this topic further — it jumps to the next question and then to thenext.
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3. Treats you too freely
Even the most experienced ladies' man, who knows how to keep his nature under control, can not give himself away. One of the characteristic features of the behavior of this type — an overly rapid transition from verbal courtesies to physical contact.
It would seem a man who has just met a woman should experience some shyness, or at least be restrained in the manifestation of his emotions. But this — within half an hour of meeting you, he can tuck a lock of your hair behind your ear, sit closer and straighten your blouse collar or sort out your necklace. This is not "indecent acts" — in this way, he checks if you are available enough and does lose whether he time, "hilling" you.
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4. Unable to accept rejection
The Womanizer can be incredibly charismatic and pleasant, but just until until realizes you are disposed towards "disposable relationships". After that, noticeable transformations take place with him. So, he may abruptly lose interest in the conversation and bow out under any pretext. Or is he showing signs of resentment — defiantly silent, throwing inappropriate remarks about strangeness of female nature and about unwillingness to understand men. The most persistent can use manipulative techniques — tell stories about hard childhood, infidelity of ex-wife and psychological trauma inflicted on him or raise other sentimental topics, the purpose of which — touch your heart.
But he doesn need your heart. And and and necessary, then only as as a trophy which he will be able to brag to his friends or which will raise his self-esteem for a while.
Of course, if a man loses the thread of the conversation, he may be just upset about something, and sharing with sad stories from his life with he can without any secret intent.
But noticing such "symptoms" still, take a closer look at the man and let yourself time to get to know him better before deciding whether he really your prince or a possible new disappointment.
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