Sometimes it is very difficult to understand yourself, what can we say about the partner's feelings. Having lulled her vigilance during the bouquet-flower period, or closing her eyes to problems in an already long-term relationship, it may seem to a girl that the man in her does not have a soul. But is it really so?
Life throws up a lot of situations that suggest how serious a man is and whether it is worth counting on a harmonious relationship. A small test will help you figure out how passionate a man is about you and what to expect from him.
Answer the simple questions and calculate the scores
How often do you meet?
A. Every day; (5 points)
B. 3 times a week; (4 points)
B. 1 time per week; (3 points)
G. Whenever he finds free time. (4 points)
Does he spoil you with unexpected surprises or gifts?
A. Yes! Quite often; (5 points)
B. Yes but rarely; (4 points)
B. Honestly, no. He is not interested in all these romantic things. (3 points)
Does it let you change the TV channel or select a movie?
A. Only when there is no important sports tournament/news/favorite show; (4 points)
B. Yes! We always watch what we both like. But, of course, when there is an important sports match, I understand that it is a priority; (5 points)
B. No, not often. Often we watch what he chooses; (3 points)
Does he know your eating habits?
A. He thinks so, but I actually like his choice of food; (4 points)
B. Yes! And he even cooks it sometimes; (5 points)
B. No, he is sure that I like the same dishes as him. (3 points)
If he had to choose between his dream/career and love, which do you think he would choose?
A. work. He needs to build a career to earn enough money to provide for his family. (3 points)
B. Love. Money will not bring much joy if a person is unhappy in a relationship. (5 points)
B. I don't know. (3 points)
Have you ever worried or suspected that he is cheating on you or cheating on you?
A. No, we completely trust each other. (5 points)
B. Well, there was one time when he went on a business trip / when I saw a correspondence with another girl / he has been very busy lately and we rarely see each other, etc. (3 points)
B. Yes, unfortunately I have my doubts. (3 points)
How long have you been together?
A.1-5 years; (4 points)
B. more than 5 years; (5 points)
B. Less than a year; (3 points)
How does he behave when you are sick?
A.Sometimes he comes to visit me and brings me fruits and goodies; (5 points)
B. He rarely visits, because he is very busy at work, but he constantly writes to me and is interested in my well-being; (4 points)
B. He rarely comes or does not come at all, because he is afraid that I will infect him, and now is not the time for him to get sick. (3 points)
How often do you communicate throughout the day?
A. Every evening we chat a lot and almost every day we send each other a couple of messages during working hours to ask how things are going, discuss plans for the evening and cheer up; (5 points)
B. Sometimes we correspond or call each other, but often there is a lot of work and there are plans for the evening, so he does not manage to pay much attention to me; (4 points)
B. Quite rare: he is very busy at work and, often, he does not have time to correspond with me in messages, so our dialogues are not very long. Often in the evenings he is too tired and does not want to talk much. (3 points)
Do you know all of his friends?
A. Yes, he introduced me to all his friends, and now we are in close contact; (5 points)
B. No, because he is sure that I will be bored with his friends / I will not like them / they are going to be an exclusively male team and there is nothing for me to do there; (3 points)
B. Yes, but only with some. (4 points)
Does he often compliment you and tell you that you are attractive?
A. Yes, we often compliment each other and that we are attractive to each other. (5 points)
B. He never compliments me and that he wants me as a woman. (3 points)
B. We don't usually talk about it. (4 points)
S. Sometimes he says that he doesn't like something about me. (3 points)
How often do you spend time alone?
A. Often. We always have something to talk about and something to do in our free time. We plan weekends in advance and often we want to be alone, without friends and relatives. (5 points)
B. Previously, we spent almost all the time together, but recently we are increasingly meeting with his acquaintances and friends to diversify our leisure time. (4 points)
B. We very rarely stay alone, because we almost always meet in the company of his friends. (3 points)
If you make a mistake and are upset about it, your boyfriend:
A. Comforts me, even if I'm wrong, says that everything is fine and this is an experience from which you need to make the most of it. (5 points)
B. He says that I shouldn’t worry too much, everything is fine, you just need to let go of the problem and it’s easier to relate to the situation and life in general. (4 points)
B. He reproaches me and does not understand how I could do this, he understands the details, each time pointing out my mistake so that I would not step on the same rake in the future. (3 points)
Does he praise you?
A. Yes, he constantly compliments me and praises me for my successes and character. (5 points)
B. Yes, from time to time. (5 points)
B. It is rather difficult to earn his praise, but he calmly reacts to my gaffes. (4 points)
S. Almost never, but he will not miss the moment to reproach me or point out a mistake. (3 points)
Test results:
55-70 points
Your young man is just crazy about you. He is a very wise and mature person who does not need to be approved at your expense: his goal – build a strong and harmonious relationship with you. You complement each other and you are not bored together. From time to time, you meet with relatives and mutual friends to share news, have a good time and after a long discussion about your impressions. You trust your partner, and he, in turn, appreciates your positive qualities and good character traits. If you have difficulties, you can count on his support, and he will do everything possible to help solve the situation. Most likely, this relationship has a great happy future! The main thing is to clearly prioritize and look in one direction.
Perhaps, sometimes a black cat runs between you, but if both of you respect your partner's feelings, show wisdom and patience, you will be able to resolve conflict situations, not allowing them to turn into a scandal, thereby keeping your relationship in love and harmony.
Less than 55 points
He seems to like you and most likely occupy an important place in his life, but two feelings constantly struggle in him: sympathy for you and his selfishness, which he finds difficult to cope with. Sometimes, he does things that go against your interests, and this can hurt you. At the moment, it is difficult to imagine how your relationship can develop, because it is not clear what will be stronger: his selfishness or affection for you. Perhaps you periodically notice his negative attitude towards certain situations and towards you or your actions. Try to analyze his motives: perhaps he has some kind of complexes or psychological clamps that prevent him from building a mature and harmonious relationship.
Therefore, it is very important to talk to him, to discuss all the points that you do not like or cause a feeling of resentment. You will need some time to dot the "and" and understand whether a happy relationship with this person is possible or not. It’s not worth chopping off your shoulder, but it’s important to soberly assess situations and his attitude towards you and life in general.
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