False signs of male infidelity: 5 myths that women believe

Women's fantasy knows no bounds. Just give the fair sex a reason to worry, and in a couple of days it will turn into excruciating suffering. As soon as a woman sees the signs of male infidelity, which are so often written about in glossy magazines, she will panic. But sometimes everything is much simpler than we invent for ourselves. Men's actions that disturb us do not always mean love on the side. Let's break down and explain 5 myths that women believe in.

• Suspicions without obvious reason — direct path to break
• False signs of male infidelity: nothing is what it seems
• The main thing about myths around the signs of male infidelity

Suspicions without obvious reason — direct path to break

Let's start with the main — women's tendency to draw big conclusions based on small events. Family psychologists constantly remind us how often this feature of a woman's nature undermines trust and destroys quite successful marriages. It is worth listening to them already at least in order to keep your own nervous system in order.

If a man phone is turned off, it does mean that he is now in the arms of his mistress. There are a thousand and one reasons why untimely calls can interfere with him. An unexpected bouquet or an expensive necklace are much more often manifestations of love for you than "compensation" out of guilt. In & nbsp; in general, all "one hundred percent" signs of male infidelity can be false.

Nervousness and suspicion out of the blue have ruined thousands of marriages. Men who are accused of cheating for no reason can really go in search of more harmonious relationships based on mutual trust. Don't repeat the mistakes of overly jealous wives and don't let a wild fantasy ruin your family life. Keep calm and don't succumb to passions.

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False signs of male infidelity: everything is not what it seems

Before you suspect a man of cheating because of some of his actions, think about how often you yourself say or do things that could alert your partner. Are all your "suspicious" Do actions like an extended visit to a manicurist or a sleepover at a friend's house signify infidelity? Hardly. So it is with men. Often things are not what they seem.

1. Attention to appearance: mistress or general trend

The moment a man suddenly starts taking care of self, signing up for a gym and buying new things,     the woman goes off with a powerful alarm. The first thought that pops into her head: he found another. It really happens sometimes, but there may be other explanations for such behavior. Perhaps the man succumbed to the general trend and set a course for a healthy lifestyle.

Think about it, when you go on a diet and sign up to beauty salon for all procedures at the same time, does this indicate a new romance? Most often, fatigue from & nbsp; a feeling of own neglect is simply triggered. It happens to men too. And there's also the influence of buddies, work colleagues, the tacit competition in companies where men casually mention how much their press from chest in the gym.

As for updating the wardrobe, it's even easier. Men's metabolic rate is 20% higher than women's. They need only minimal changes in their diet to lose weight and get fit. Old clothes look baggy and unattractive, and you really want to show off your updated body. Do you also buy new blouses when you lose 3-5 kg?..

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2. Passion has left your dorm room

If you and have less sex with your partner, it may not be related to women at all. Rather the opposite. Daily stress, fatigue, sedentary lifestyle, bad habits, boredom — all this does not contribute to attraction to the opposite sex. Doctors are sounding the alarm: today's young men are experiencing less and less interest in sex.

Don't torment yourself with suspicions, rather help your partner regain his former ardor. It's up to you. Add activities. Make a rule to walk in evenings, sign up for a gym together, go on vacation and try to forget problems for for a while. A little carelessness and  activity will bring much more benefit to your relationship than baseless jealousy.

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3. A man leaves room to answer phones

This is annoying. He obviously has secrets. But it doesn't have to be a lover. Often men decide to change something in their lives, but don share their plans with wives. They want to present themselves as heroes in front of their loved ones, and in case of failure, the effect will be exactly the opposite. I have to hide it.

Most often, this happens during periods of age crises. A person suddenly realizes that life is passing by, and nothing worthwhile has been done in it. I want drastic changes. Yes, sometimes this is a new family, but if a man meets understanding with wife, it is unlikely he will want to risk marriage, rather he will put his energy into the next project. Be patient and wait. Don't forget about confidential communication. Weirdness will end.

4. Delays at work — an alarming symptom, but everything is solved

If a man began to linger more often at work, with friends or in the gym, it means that he has ceased to be drawn home. It not sure that he found another, but it might happen. Perhaps he tired of everyday problems, your grumblings and cold wars? Let him rest. If he is looking for or has found a mistress, you cannot change anything. Live your life, keep calm, become a source of warmth and harmony in home.

You both need love and patience right now.

Jealousy, squabbles and  scandals sooner or later will force one of you to take a step towards change.

If life has become unbearable, find an outlet. It can be a gym, yoga, an evening run, gatherings with friends, a sauna. Don't sit at home and do pour poison while waiting for the late arrival of your loved one. It won't end well.

5. Changes in behavior mean...yes anything

Psychologists love to talk about age and family crises, and they're right. Each of us goes through stages of soul-searching. We all think about how much life corresponds to the dreams and expectations of youth. If your partner suddenly began to show dissatisfaction with his family, work, health, children, he is just once again looking for himself.

Having heard the news or watching acquaintances, men sometimes begin to look for  deadly» diseases. They never will recognize anything like this, but     their behavior is affected. If you find yourself in a situation where have no idea what to expect your partner the most reasonable — watch and stay calm. Crises are not forever.

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The main thing about myths around the signs of male infidelity

No matter how much the talk of gender equality   women will remain more interested in maintaining relationships than men. This is how nature intended. There is nothing shameful in the fact that you protect your family hearth and are afraid of your mistress. But not you should specifically look for signs of male infidelity. Don't jealous, it's pointless and destructive. Stick to simple rules:

• don't saw a man just because you're in a bad mood;

• If you notice changes in your partner's behavior, stay calm and observe;

• Talk more what worries you both;

• don't make a man the center of your personal universe, live life to the fullest;

• if you don't enough attention and care, clearly tell your partner what you expect from him: gifts, flowers or walks under the moon once a week;

• remember, men don understand abstractions and hints;

• don't panic about every change.

Man — this is a full partner, and not the property of a woman. Let go of the reins of control, add lightness to the relationship. Trust me, it will make life easier for both of you.

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