How to make more money: getting rid of the poverty mindset

Some have yachts, villas and luxury cars, while others barely make ends meet. We live in an amazing time when everyone can do what they love, quickly get the information they need, improve and monetize any skills. In   everyone has equal opportunities, but the difference in income can be colossal. Why is it so? The answer is simple: many people are hindered by harmful beliefs. Let's figure out how to make more money and what installations to get rid of.

• What beliefs prevent us from making a lot of money
• The Deep Roots of Harmful Monetary Attitudes
• How to make more money — 5 useful techniques
• The main thing about sets on poverty and hows to get rid of them

What beliefs prevent us from earning a lot

There are a lot of personal growth trainings where experienced speakers teach you how to make more money. But  on the whole, the picture remains the same: money flows to those who already make good money, but the poor, if they increase their income level, then only for a short-term. After passing another motivational training, people do not become richer, although they still manage to solve some money problems.

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It turns out that the income is really "in" the head. There are some internal stoppers that force people to create obstacles for themselves that prevent them from earning. These harmful attitudes are about the same for everyone:

• Money — evil. We used to blame everything on either the money itself or its deficiency. Rich people are obviously perceived as immoral, and we connect all problems with lack of money.

• Modesty — this is good. We will be haunted by the Soviet legacy for a long time to come: don stick your head out, the initiative is punishable. We try to be "like everyone else", which means we don't strive to create something fundamentally new, we are afraid of being different from others.

• "If I make more, others will get less." In trying to be good and sharing with everyone we create conditions that hurt income growth.

• Work you often don't bring money. Any job can be both almost free and highly paid. It's hard for us to reconcile the thought that everything depends only on our ability to sell our services and find paying buyers.

• Money ruins relationships. It is a widely held belief that a person "corrupts" if he earns more than others. He becomes arrogant and the people around him stop talking and families fall apart.

With negative thoughts about money, there is no chance of getting it more, because a person subconsciously distances himself from everything that causes fear in him. But and that's not all. The most powerful attitude that poisons our relationship with money: "I" am not worthy of big money. She comes from childhood, when an unloved child tries to get at least a crumb of affection for good behavior and does count on more.

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Deep roots of harmful monetary attitudes

We  attach great importance to money. They have a special symbolic meaning. Psychologists believe that harmful attitudes are associated in people's thinking with such factors:

• Safety.Money gives a feeling of security, but their "excess" associated with potential danger. Afraid of being rejected, people transfer this fear to money. They are frightened by the thought of losing large sums. No money — no robbery, no problem.

• Strength. Who has more money, he is right. This unwritten law really works, and a person who is afraid of the big and powerful surrounding world submits to the strong. It is difficult for him to imagine himself strong, so he subconsciously runs away from money.

• Love. In the  society, the installation works that a person with big money is loved only for his income, not paying attention to other qualities. In order not to be rejected and receive sincere feelings, people try to avoid money.

A person who wants to increase income finds himself between the opposing forces of his psyche. On the one hand, he strives for money, wants to earn it. C another, — does everything to avoid unnecessary "anxiety" associated with high income, to receive sincere love and friendship.

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How to make more money — 5 useful techniques

To thoroughly understand your harmful attitudes regarding money, it is better to go to a psychologist. But there are a few techniques that you can use on your own:

1. Write down on a piece of paper all the negative thoughts about money.Think them, try to remember who from when these attitudes came from, and rewrite then in a positive way. For example, the belief «Money — it's evil" can be rewritten like this: “Money is neutral. People use them for both evil and good intentions.

2. Work on self-esteem. Think of the people who make more money than you. Are they really better, smarter, more educated, more talented? Hardly. Realize that money does not come from  for special merit. They come to & nbsp; anyone who considers himself worthy. You deserve it. So calculate how much you really need, where you plan to spend the money, and stop being afraid of this amount.

3. Set money goals and achieve them.If you don't have a clear understanding of what you want, don dream about wealth. You need money? Then determine the goal and  stubbornly move towards it.

4. Acknowledge and fear of lack of money.If you feel like buying an item you don't need at a wild discount, stop and realize it's just fear. Refuse the purchase and promise you will make it when needed, but not now 

5. Accept that money and high spirituality are quite compatible.We we are so accustomed to considering rich people as scoundrels that we don even admit the thought of their decency. Fact: the word "rich" came from "god". Big money won't make you a bad or soulless person. Consider it. Calm down and look for the virtues of those people whose income you envy.

There are many people who manage to save money on a modest income. Their secret — proper budget planning. This is an art, and it is worth mastering. Getting rid of harmful attitudes, at the same time learn to handle money. Relentlessly look for ways to save money, but avoid being stingy.

Set aside 10-20% of of every amount you receive and don don touch this money. By creating a small financial pillow, you will calm down, become more positive about money. Next — more, because money is attracted to full, and    empty wallets.

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The main thing about sets on poverty and hows to get rid of them

To get more money, you will have to get rid of  old installations, accept new and, most importantly, act, because water does not flow under a lying stone. Help yourself earn more:

• Realize that money is neutral. They do not affect the mental qualities of a person.

• Accept that you deserve a high salary. Yes, you have past traumas, but they are related to money. Prosperity will not  save you from feeling unloved, and  poverty will only aggravate it.

• Set money goals. Dreams — this is good, but it will take some work to get a real result.

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Love and value money, strive for   they will reciprocate.

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